This book is a game changer for caregivers of loved ones with dementia. This book will help millions of families, like hers, like yours, like mine, like everyones. Its a book for our time. Maria Shriver
From Emma Heming Willis, wife of Bruce Willis, a deeply personal and richly compassionate supportive guide that helps caregivers care for themselves while they navigate a loved one's dementia.
By sharing her personal journey as a care partner and the latest research and insights from the worlds top dementia, caregiving, and integrative experts Emma offers the guidance and wisdom caregivers everywhere so desperately need to hear, including:
A diagnosis isnt just a label, its a starting point. It helps you better understand your persons behavior and respond with more clarity and compassion. Taking care of yourself is not optional; it's mandatory. It will make you a better care partner. Its not selfish, its self-preserving. You dont have a choice about being on the dementia caregiving journey. But you do have a choice in terms of how you approach it and reframe it. Caregivers are human so you arent always going to be patient and selfless. You have challenges and struggle with conflicting emotions and thats okay.
The day Emma Heming Willis husband, Bruce Willis, was diagnosed with frontotemporal dementia (FTD), all they were given was a pamphlet and told to check back in a few months.
With no hope or direction, Emma walked out of that doctors appointment frozen with fear, confusion and a sense that her world had just fallen apart.
In fact, it had. Bruce and Emma had their story written, their future mapped out. Yet all those dreams crumbled with that diagnosis, and Emma felt alone and more isolated than ever.
How would she care for her husband while parenting their young daughters?
With The Unexpected Journey, Emma has written the book she wishes shed been handed on the day of Bruces diagnosis: a supportive guide to navigating the complicated, heartbreaking, and transformative experience that is caregiving for your loved one.
Ultimately, The Unexpected Journey shows you how to care for yourself while doing one of the hardest, most heartbreaking jobs in the world. Because if you dont take care of yourself, you are not going to be able to look after anyone elseespecially your loved one with dementia.
'I know that no two caregiving journeys are the same, but we are connected by the same unchosen thread. Its not an easy path for you, your loved one or your family. But Im here to let you know that you are not alone, and, in time, you will find your footing, and a way forward.'