This book gathers together selected papers and book chapters by Dilys Daws, covering her 50 years of pioneering work as a child psychotherapist.
This book gathers together selected papers and book chapters by Dilys Daws, covering her 50 years of pioneering work as a child psychotherapist.
It provides those working with parents, infants, and children with a means of learning from Daws’s decades of experience as a psychotherapist and therapeutic consultant, with plentiful case material illustrating her method of working in action. The first two sections of the book focus on her work as consultant psychotherapist in the baby clinic of a GP practice and her parent-infant work in this context as well as at the Tavistock and Portman Clinic. The third section explores her work with young children, focusing on questions around the therapeutic frame and setting. The fourth section features extended excerpts from her writings for the general public, most particularly aimed at new parents and parents with infants. Finally, the book also contains several short reflective pieces addressing themes to do with parent-infant work, the experience of the therapist, and the social role of psychoanalytic thinking.
This book will be of interest to all those working with parents and children, including doctors, health visitors, and social workers, as well as child psychotherapists and child psychoanalysts.
Foreword by Sebastian Kraemer. Memoir. Inroduction. Part 1: Therapeutic
Consultancy: A Child Psychotherapist in a GP Practice
1. Standing Next to the
Weighing Scales
2. Standing Next to the Weighing Scales 30 Years On
3.
Psychoanalytic Thinking and Public Services: Can They Inspire Each Other?
Part 2: Parent-Infant Psychotherapy and Infant Mental Health
4. Parent-Infant
Psychotherapy: The Baby in the Consulting Room
5. Brief Psychoanalytic
Therapy for Sleep Problems
6. Feeding Problems and Relationship Difficulties:
Therapeutic work with Parents and Infants
7. The Perils of Intimacy:
Closeness and Distance in Feeding and Weaning (1997) Part 3: Child
Psychotherapy: the Frame and the Setting
8. Consent in Child Psychotherapy:
The Conflicts for Child Patients, Parents and Professionals
9. Resistance and
Co-operation: The Need for Both. A Further Study of Psychotherapy in a Day
Unit Part 4: Writing for Parents
10. The One Year Old and His Family
11. Love
and Hate
12. Crying Babies: Listening and Comforting
13. Your Babys Emerging
Sense of Self Part 5: Reflections
14. Enlivened or Burnt Out?
15. Saying What
You Mean, Or Meaning What You Say
16. Working at the Edge
17. Error and
Repair
18. Rivalry with Fathers
Dilys Daws was Consultant Child Psychotherapist at the Tavistock and Portman NHS Foundation Trust where she was awarded a Doctorate and a visiting consultant at the baby clinic of the James Wigg Practice, Kentish Town. She was Chair of the Association of Child Psychotherapists, and Founder Chair of the Association for Infant Mental Health-UK. She has had 50 years of clinical and teaching experience, has lectured on child psychotherapy and infant mental health widely in the UK and abroad, and has politically lobbied for it.
Matthew Lumley has studied at the Tavistock and Portman, where he completed his Post-Graduate Diploma in Working with Children, Young People and Families: A Psychoanalytic Observational Approach. He has worked for many years with autistic children in both primary and secondary school settings, and for two years as an assistant psychotherapist in the Tavistock Outreach in Primary Schools programme.