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Introduction to this book from the author |
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A few quotes about the author and her work |
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1 Social skills: an introduction |
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Defining social skills and social competence |
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Socially skilled behaviours are goal directed |
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Socially skilled behaviours are interrelated |
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Social skills are defined in terms of identifiable units of behaviour |
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Social skills are behaviours which can be learned |
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Social skills are appropriate to the situation |
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Social skills are under the cognitive control of the individual |
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Socially skilled people can read their audience |
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The difference between men and women (and our brains) |
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Why are social skills important? |
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Success at school and work |
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2 Body language |
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The importance of body language and how to read it |
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Context, congruence and clusters |
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Open versus closed body language |
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Our limbs...what are they saying? |
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24 | (3) |
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3 Eyes and faces |
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35 | (9) |
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36 | (1) |
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37 | (7) |
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44 | (5) |
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The six universal emotions |
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45 | (4) |
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49 | (2) |
4 Listening and paralanguage |
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An introduction to conversation skills |
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Paralinguistic skills or prosody |
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52 | (2) |
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A definition of listening |
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Factors that affect listening |
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5 Starting and ending conversations |
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The greeting and parting phase |
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Starting or opening a conversation |
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Opening line...or small talk |
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The four most common mistakes when starting a conversation |
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The functions of ending a conversation |
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Six top tips to ending a conversation |
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1 Use nonverbal behaviour to show you're ready to end the conversation |
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2 Use verbal cues that show you're ready to end the conversation |
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3 Restate one or two of the main points you talked about |
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6 Suggest a future meeting (optional) |
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6 Maintaining a conversation |
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Differences due to culture and gender |
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The purpose of asking questions |
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Top tips for asking questions to get to know someone |
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Answering questions/responding |
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7 Assertiveness |
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97 | (10) |
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98 | (2) |
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100 | (1) |
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100 | (5) |
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The purpose of assertiveness |
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The causes of unassertiveness |
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107 | (9) |
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8 Self-esteem |
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The development of self-esteem |
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120 | (4) |
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124 | (1) |
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The benefits of high self-esteem |
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The Rosenberg Self-Esteem Scale |
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The link between self-esteem and social skills |
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9 Friendship skills |
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Why are friends important? What are the benefits? |
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Friendships and a child's development |
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How do friendships develop? |
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Friendship skills and the link to social skills |
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10 The development of social skills |
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Joint attention and symbolic communication |
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Observational learning-parents |
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Observational learning-peers and siblings |
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Learning the 'why and when' |
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The development of theory of mind |
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Other factors that affect the development of social skills |
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Attitudes to the environment |
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Stages of development for social skills |
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Key points from Chapter 10 |
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11 Autism Spectrum Disorder and social skills |
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A diagnosis of Autism Spectrum Disorder |
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172 | (2) |
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Areas of difficulty for the person with ASD |
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Social use of language or 'pragmatics' |
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174 | (1) |
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Literal understanding of language |
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Theories of ASD and how they affect social communication |
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Empathising-systemising (E-S) theory |
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Executive dysfunction theory |
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Key points from Chapter 11 |
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12 Assessing social skills |
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191 | (24) |
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191 | (5) |
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192 | (2) |
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Assessment of body language |
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Assessment of paralinguistic skills |
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Assessment of conversation skills |
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Assessment of assertiveness |
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Interpreting a social skills assessment |
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Case example 1: 15-year-old young adult with Down's Syndrome |
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Case example 2: 9-year-old child |
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Key points from Chapter 12 |
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13 Teaching social skills 1: approaches to teaching social skills |
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Different approaches to intervention |
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Behavioural approach and Applied Behaviour Analysis (ABA) |
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Structured learning approach |
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Cognitive behavioural approach |
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The evidence for social skills training |
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The four-step plan to intervention |
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Key points from Chapter 13 |
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14 Teaching social skills 2: social skills interventions |
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Therapeutic 1:1 interventions |
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Comic Strip conversations™ |
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Therapeutic group interventions |
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Setting up a social skills group |
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Running a social skills group |
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Creative arts interventions |
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Role play, drama and storytelling |
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Computer based software applications |
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Key points from Chapter 14 |
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15 Teaching social skills 3: teaching social skills in schools |
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Why are social skills important to teach in school? |
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Quality of life, success and staying out of trouble |
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Social skills and cognitive development and learning |
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Different approaches to teaching social skills in school |
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School climate or culture: looking at the bigger picture |
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The targeted group approach |
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Examples of developing social skills in schools |
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A whole school curriculum approach |
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Top tips for developing social skills in schools |
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Key points from Chapter 15 |
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16 Teaching social skills 4: the role of parents |
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Developing self-esteem at home |
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Ten ideas to develop self-esteem |
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Developing social skills at home |
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Helping a shy, withdrawn child |
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Helping an aggressive child |
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Key points from Chapter 16 |
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17 Evaluation: measuring the effectiveness of social skills interventions |
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Defining evaluation and why it is important |
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What makes a good evaluation? |
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Step 1 The initial assessment and the baseline score |
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Step 3 Reassessment of targets and baseline assessment |
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Reassessment of baseline assessment |
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1 The Afasic Project: secondary schools |
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2 The Afasic Project: primary schools |
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3 The Ashley School Academy Trust in Lowestoft |
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Why hasn't it worked? Questions to ask yourself |
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Key points from Chapter 17 |
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References |
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Index |
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