This fascinating, compelling, and comforting book convincingly argues that whether we choose to become parents or not, we as well as many other animals were born pre-programmed to care for others. At a time when human overpopulation threatens all the earths species, its great to know we can harness our inborn genius for love to do more than just churn out more and more baby humans we can extend that love to care for life in all its glorious forms. -- Sy Montgomery, bestselling author of What the Chicken Knows Elizabeth Preston is an engaging, brilliant, often hilarious guide to the WTF world of non-human parenting. This book is astonishing for the breadth of Prestons research and the eye-opening, jaw-dropping things it uncovers: dads who incubate their young in their throats and burp them out. Babies that survive by peeling and eating their mothers skin. Gender-changing fish! Lactating male bats! The message is clear: there is no one way to be a parent. A must read for mothers (and fathers) and everyone who has one. -- Mary Roach, New York Times bestselling author of Replaceable You Reading this book is like sitting at a dinner table with your smartest, funniest friend. Elizabeth Prestons writing shimmers with wit, charisma, and infectious delight, as she shows how the act of caretaking connects us to the rest of the animal kingdom. -- Ed Yong, New York Times bestselling author of An Immense World Leave your anthropocentric illusions behind and join science writer Elizabeth Preston in her disarming practice of identifying with other parents, whether fish, fowl, insect or mammal. In return, you will be mightily entertained, and also likely to come away sharing Prestons conviction that acts of caring by fathers, mothers, aunts, uncles, grandparents, and caretakers of every ilk laid the groundwork for the evolution of our own peculiarly social and cooperative species, Homo sapiens. -- Sarah Blaffer Hrdy, author of Mother Nature and Father Time Lively and often humorous An informative and entertaining inquiry into animal parents. * Kirkus Reviews * Prestons warm and humorous debut book delightfully weaves together stories of parenthood successes and challenges across the world and has a place in any science or parenting collection. * Library Journal *
