Foreword |
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Introduction |
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Conventions Used in This Book |
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How This Book Is Organized |
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Part I: When MS Becomes Part of Your Life |
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Part II: Taking Charge of Your MS |
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Part III: Staying Healthy and Feeling Well |
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4 | (1) |
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Part IV: Managing Lifestyle Issues |
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Part V: Creating Your Safety Nets |
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5 | (1) |
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Part VI: The Part of Tens |
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6 | (1) |
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Part I: When MS Becomes Part of your Life |
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Introducing the Roles Your Immune and Nervous Systems Play in MS |
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The immune system: Your body's frontline defender |
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The nervous system: Your body's CEO |
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Taking advantage of the body's natural healing process |
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13 | (1) |
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Exploring Possible MS Triggers |
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14 | (3) |
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14 | (1) |
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15 | (1) |
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15 | (1) |
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16 | (1) |
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16 | (1) |
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Understanding Why Your MS is as Unique as Your Fingerprint |
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Distinguishing the four disease types |
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17 | (2) |
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Scanning the possible symptoms |
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Perusing the MS Treatment Menu |
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19 | (2) |
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Recognizing How Your MS Affects Your Loved Ones |
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21 | (2) |
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Talking about the tough stuff |
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21 | (1) |
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Keeping daily life on track |
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22 | (1) |
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Maintaining healthy partnerships |
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22 | (1) |
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Becoming confident parents |
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22 | (1) |
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Minimizing the Impact of MS on Work and Play |
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23 | (1) |
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Taking Steps to Protect Your Quality of Life |
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24 | (1) |
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So, What Is it, Doc? Getting a Diagnosis |
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Clarifying the Diagnostic Criteria |
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Getting Familiar with the Neurologist's Diagnostic Tools |
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27 | (9) |
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28 | (1) |
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28 | (2) |
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30 | (5) |
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Identifying a clinically isolated syndrome |
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Understanding Why the Road to Diagnosis Can Be Full of Twists and Turns |
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36 | (1) |
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You've Been Diagnosed - So What's Next? |
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First Things First: Sorting Out Your Feelings |
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37 | (4) |
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Shock: ``This can't be happening'' |
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38 | (1) |
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Denial: ``This isn't happening'' |
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38 | (1) |
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39 | (1) |
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Anxiety: ``What's going to happen to me?'' |
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39 | (1) |
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Anger: ``Why can't you fix what's happening to me?'' |
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40 | (1) |
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Relief: ``Thank goodness - I thought it was something worse!'' |
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40 | (1) |
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Deciding on the Next Steps |
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41 | (3) |
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Catch your breath before making any major changes or decisions |
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42 | (1) |
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Have a heart-to-heart conversation with your neurologist about treatment |
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42 | (1) |
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Begin talking about MS with the people in your life |
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42 | (2) |
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Make a commitment to your health |
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44 | (1) |
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Facing the Longer-Term Challenges of a Chronic Illness |
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44 | (6) |
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The how-to of healthy grieving |
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45 | (2) |
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Living with unpredictability |
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47 | (3) |
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Making Treatment and Lifestyle Choices That Work for You |
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50 | (3) |
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Minimizing the stress of decision-making |
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50 | (1) |
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Getting the professional help and personal support you need |
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51 | (2) |
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Creating Your Healthcare Team |
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53 | (14) |
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Working with Your Physician |
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53 | (7) |
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Finding a neurologist with the qualities you value |
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54 | (2) |
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Establishing a pattern of routine care |
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56 | (1) |
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Making the most of your doctor visits |
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56 | (2) |
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Knowing when to call in the MS specialist |
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58 | (1) |
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59 | (1) |
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Rounding Up Other Key Players |
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60 | (5) |
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The nurse for education, guidance, and support |
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60 | (1) |
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The rehabilitation specialists to help you keep on truckin' |
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61 | (2) |
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The mental health specialists to help you keep your head on straight |
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63 | (2) |
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The general medical doctors |
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65 | (1) |
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Considering Comprehensive MS Treatment Centers |
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65 | (2) |
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Part II: Taking Charge of your MS |
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Developing Your Management Plan to Take Charge of Your MS |
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69 | (8) |
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Using Multiple Strategies to Manage MS |
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69 | (4) |
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Modifying the disease course |
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70 | (1) |
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70 | (1) |
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Taking charge of your symptoms |
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71 | (1) |
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Enhancing function through rehabilitation |
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71 | (1) |
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Providing psychosocial support |
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72 | (1) |
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Taking care of your health |
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72 | (1) |
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Tapping Your Creativity and Flexibility |
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73 | (1) |
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Creating Your Own Treatment Template |
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74 | (3) |
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Managing the Disease Course and Treating Relapses |
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77 | (18) |
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Managing the Disease Course |
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78 | (10) |
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Understanding the whys and wherefores of early treatment |
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78 | (1) |
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Getting familiar with the immunomodulators |
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79 | (6) |
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Turning to immunosuppressants |
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85 | (1) |
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Setting realistic expectations for the DMTs |
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86 | (1) |
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A word about primary-progressive MS |
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87 | (1) |
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88 | (5) |
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88 | (2) |
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Treating an acute relapse |
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90 | (3) |
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Getting Comfortable with Your Treatment Decisions |
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93 | (2) |
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Managing Fatigue, Walking Problems, Visual Changes, and Tremor |
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95 | (20) |
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96 | (6) |
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Identifying and dealing with the causes of fatigue |
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96 | (5) |
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Managing your energy bank to help put your sleepiness to bed |
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101 | (1) |
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Envisioning Solutions to Vision Problems |
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102 | (4) |
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102 | (4) |
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Exploring longer-term management strategies |
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106 | (1) |
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Getting Around Walking Problems |
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106 | (7) |
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Addressing the sources of the problem |
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106 | (4) |
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Using aids to take charge of your mobility |
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110 | (3) |
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113 | (2) |
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Handling Problems with Bladder and Bowel Function, Pain, Sex, and Speech and Swallowing |
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115 | (22) |
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Eliminating Elimination Problems |
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115 | (7) |
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Managing your bothersome bladder |
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116 | (3) |
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Dealing with your bowel symptoms |
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119 | (3) |
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Sizing up Sexual Symptoms |
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122 | (8) |
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Identifying the changes you may be experiencing |
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122 | (2) |
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Silence isn't golden: Talking is the first step |
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124 | (2) |
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Treating your sexual symptoms |
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126 | (4) |
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Sidestepping Sensory Symptoms and Pain |
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130 | (3) |
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Sorting out Speech and Swallowing Problems |
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133 | (4) |
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Speech and voice problems: Articulating the facts |
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133 | (1) |
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Watching out for swallowing problems |
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134 | (3) |
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Getting Your Head around Problems with Thinking and Mood |
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137 | (16) |
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Handling Problems with Thinking and Memory |
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137 | (8) |
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138 | (1) |
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Understanding how MS can affect your cognition |
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138 | (3) |
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Deciding when an evaluation is in order |
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141 | (1) |
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Knowing what to expect during an evaluation |
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142 | (1) |
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Identifying treatment options |
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143 | (1) |
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Employing practical strategies for managing daily cognitive challenges |
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144 | (1) |
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Managing the Emotional Ups and Downs |
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145 | (8) |
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146 | (1) |
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Getting a handle on uncontrolled laughing or crying |
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147 | (1) |
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Dealing with severe depression |
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148 | (5) |
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Considering Complementary and Alternative Medicine |
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153 | (3) |
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154 | (1) |
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155 | (1) |
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155 | (1) |
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Understanding the role of the FDA |
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156 | (9) |
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Sorting out the wheat from the chaff |
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156 | (2) |
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Identifying CAM Interventions That May Be Useful in Managing MS Symptoms |
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158 | (1) |
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Herbs, vitamins, and other CAM options that go into the body |
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158 | (4) |
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Exercise, prayer, and other CAM options done independently or in a class |
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160 | (1) |
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Acupuncture, massage, and other CAM options performed by a practitioner |
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161 | (1) |
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Becoming a Cautious CAM Consumer |
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162 | (3) |
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Part III: Staying Healthy and Feeling Well |
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165 | (42) |
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Paying Attention to Your Health - It's Not All about MS |
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167 | (12) |
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Enhancing Your Wellness by Paying Attention to the Whole You |
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167 | (1) |
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Scheduling Routine Checkups to Protect Your Health |
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168 | (1) |
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Making Healthy Eating a Priority |
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169 | (3) |
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Taking MS into account when planning your menu |
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170 | (1) |
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Battling the barriers to healthy eating |
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171 | (1) |
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Improving Your MS and Overall Wellness with Exercise |
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172 | (5) |
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173 | (1) |
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174 | (2) |
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Maximizing your comfort and safety during exercise |
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176 | (1) |
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Increasing Your Chances of Success |
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177 | (2) |
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Handling Stress without Giving Up Your Life |
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179 | (12) |
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Understanding the Relationship between Stress and MS |
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179 | (1) |
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Recognizing Your Own Signs of Stress |
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180 | (2) |
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From sweaty palms to pounding hearts: Knowing your physical signs of stress |
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180 | (1) |
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Anxiety and irritability: Knowing your emotional signs of stress |
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181 | (1) |
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Identifying the Major Stresses in Your Life |
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182 | (2) |
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Dealing with the devil: Job stress 101 |
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182 | (1) |
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Handling family stress with grace and composure |
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183 | (1) |
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Controlling the uncontrollable: Managing your MS stress |
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183 | (1) |
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Developing Your Stress Management Plan |
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184 | (7) |
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Figuring out your priorities |
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185 | (1) |
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185 | (1) |
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Cutting yourself some slack |
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186 | (1) |
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Taking some practical steps |
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186 | (2) |
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Tapping available resources |
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188 | (1) |
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Zoning in on your ``MS-free zone'' |
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188 | (1) |
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Practicing stress management techniques |
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189 | (2) |
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191 | (16) |
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Scouting Out the Treatment Scene |
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191 | (6) |
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Understanding your disease-management options |
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192 | (2) |
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Exploring ways to feel and function at your best |
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194 | (1) |
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Taking steps to prevent unnecessary complications |
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195 | (2) |
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Maintaining Your Quality of Life |
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197 | (4) |
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Holding on to what's important to you |
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197 | (1) |
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Stay in touch: Preserving your connections with other people |
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198 | (1) |
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Establishing goals and enjoying the satisfaction of meeting them |
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198 | (1) |
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Keeping your self-image well-polished |
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199 | (1) |
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Finding your ``MS-free zone'' |
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199 | (1) |
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Helping yourself by helping someone else |
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200 | (1) |
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Discovering Long-Term Care Services (Just In Case) |
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201 | (4) |
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201 | (1) |
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Getting help in your home |
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202 | (1) |
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Looking into adult day care |
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203 | (1) |
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Identifying assisted living options |
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204 | (1) |
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Considering nursing home care |
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204 | (1) |
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Important Tips for Caregivers |
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205 | (2) |
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Part IV: Managing Lifestyle lssues |
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207 | (60) |
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Presenting Your MS Face to the World |
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209 | (12) |
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Explaining Your MS to Others |
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209 | (6) |
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210 | (1) |
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Dealing with common reactions |
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211 | (3) |
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Remembering that MS is part of you but not all of you |
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214 | (1) |
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Disclosing Your Dlagnosis to a Prospective Partner |
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215 | (3) |
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218 | (3) |
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218 | (1) |
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Staking out your independence |
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219 | (1) |
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P.S. The doctor can't read your mind either |
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220 | (1) |
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Making MS a Part of the Family |
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221 | (20) |
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Addressing Your Family Members' Feelings about Your Diagnosis |
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221 | (2) |
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Communicating Effectively with Adult Family Members |
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223 | (4) |
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Recognizing communication barriers |
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223 | (1) |
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Getting the ball rolling toward more open communication |
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224 | (3) |
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Keeping the Family Rhythm Going so Your MS Doesn't Steal the Show |
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227 | (4) |
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Coping with the direct and indirect costs |
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228 | (1) |
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228 | (2) |
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Establishing lamlly priorities |
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230 | (1) |
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Problem-solving: Many heads are better than one |
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230 | (1) |
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Building and Maintaining Healthy Partner Relationships |
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231 | (4) |
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Making time for each other |
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231 | (1) |
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Keeping the intimacy alive |
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232 | (1) |
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Maintaining a balanced partnership |
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233 | (1) |
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What to do when one partner can't participate in joint activities |
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233 | (1) |
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Turning a caregiving relationship into a care partnership |
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234 | (1) |
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235 | (6) |
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Helping your adult child with MS |
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235 | (2) |
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Young children and teens get MS too |
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237 | (4) |
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And Baby Makes Three, Four, or More: Planning a Family around Your MS |
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241 | (10) |
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MS and Babies: Here's the Good News! |
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241 | (4) |
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Fertility isn't affected by MS |
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242 | (1) |
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Pregnancy hormones reduce disease activity |
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242 | (1) |
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Pregnancies don't increase a woman's long-term disability level |
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243 | (1) |
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Childbirth isn't a piece of cake for anyone but women with MS do just fine |
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243 | (1) |
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Parents with MS have healthy bables |
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244 | (1) |
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Breastfeeding is definitely an option |
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244 | (1) |
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Considering Key Issues when Making Family-Planning Decisions |
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245 | (2) |
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245 | (1) |
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Remembering that babies don't stay babies very long |
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246 | (1) |
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Facing the uncertainties: The future doesn't come with guarantees |
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247 | (1) |
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Strategies for Smart Decision-Making |
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247 | (4) |
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247 | (1) |
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Evaluate your financial situation |
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248 | (1) |
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Take a good look at your teamwork |
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248 | (1) |
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Check out your support network |
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249 | (1) |
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Have a heart-to-heart with your partner |
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249 | (1) |
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Talk to other parents living with MS |
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249 | (1) |
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Remember that your plans can change |
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250 | (1) |
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Parenting: It Wasn't Easy Before You Had MS! |
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251 | (16) |
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Keeping the Communication Lines Open |
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252 | (6) |
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Telling the kids about your MS makes good sense |
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252 | (2) |
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Sharing info with your children when secrecy is important |
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254 | (1) |
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Finding ways to broach the big issues |
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255 | (1) |
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Explaining those pesky invisible symptoms |
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256 | (2) |
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Parenting around Your MS Symptoms |
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258 | (4) |
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``I'm so tired that I'm in bed before they are!'' |
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258 | (1) |
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``How can I be a good dad if I can't even play ball?'' |
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259 | (2) |
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``How can I discipline `em if I can't catch `em?'' |
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261 | (1) |
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Employing Effective Parenting Strategies |
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262 | (5) |
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Call a spade a spade: Let MS take the blame when it needs to |
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262 | (1) |
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Polish up your creativity and flexibility |
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262 | (1) |
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Call on your support network |
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263 | (1) |
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Remember, MS isn't always to blame --- other people's teenagers are a pain too |
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263 | (1) |
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Handle little problems before they get bigger |
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264 | (1) |
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265 | (2) |
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Part V: Creating Your Safety Nets |
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267 | (42) |
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Keeping Your Place in the Workforce |
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269 | (14) |
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Understanding the High Rate of Unemployment in MS |
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269 | (1) |
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Counting the Reasons to Keep on Truckin' |
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270 | (1) |
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Speed Bumps Ahead: Recognizing the Job-Related Challenges |
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271 | (4) |
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When symptoms get in the way |
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271 | (1) |
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When attitudes get in the way |
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272 | (3) |
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Knowing Your Rights under the ADA |
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275 | (5) |
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Disclosing your MS in the workplace |
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275 | (2) |
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Understanding the terms used in the law |
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277 | (1) |
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Requesting reasonable accommodations |
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278 | (1) |
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279 | (1) |
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Thinking about Leaving Your Job |
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280 | (3) |
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Exhausting your short-term leave options |
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280 | (1) |
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Looking into long-term disability options |
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280 | (2) |
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Making the choices that are right for you |
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282 | (1) |
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Getting a Grip on Insurance |
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283 | (14) |
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Considering Your Health Insurance Options --- It's All about Eligibility |
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283 | (3) |
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Employment-based insurance programs |
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284 | (1) |
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Public health insurance programs |
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284 | (1) |
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285 | (1) |
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Options if you don't have health insurance |
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285 | (1) |
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Keeping a Tight Hold on Your Health Insurance |
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286 | (4) |
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Continuing coverage with COBRA |
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286 | (3) |
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Protecting your coverage with HIPAA |
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289 | (1) |
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Seeing COBRA and HIPAA work as a team |
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290 | (1) |
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Understanding the Ins and Outs of Your Health Insurance Plan |
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290 | (2) |
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Filing Successful Insurance Appeals |
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292 | (1) |
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Step 1: Check your coverage |
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292 | (1) |
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Step 2: Confirm why coverage was denied or was less than expected |
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292 | (1) |
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293 | (1) |
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Replacing Your Income with Disability Insurance |
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293 | (3) |
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Commercial disability insurance |
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294 | (1) |
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Public disability insurance: SSDI |
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295 | (1) |
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A Brief Word about Life and Long-Term Care Insurance |
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296 | (1) |
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Planning for a Future with MS |
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297 | (12) |
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Preparing for the Worst While Hoping for the Best |
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297 | (3) |
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Facing those scary ``what-ifs?'' |
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298 | (1) |
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Taking charge of your future |
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298 | (2) |
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Navigating the Planning Process: It's as Easy as One, Two, Three |
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300 | (9) |
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300 | (3) |
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What might the future bring? |
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303 | (3) |
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What can you do now to be ready? |
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306 | (3) |
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Part VI: The Part of Tens |
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309 | (14) |
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Ten Must-Do's for Living with MS |
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311 | (4) |
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Educate Yourself about MS |
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311 | (1) |
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Work with Your Neurologist |
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312 | (1) |
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312 | (1) |
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Make MS a Part of the Family |
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312 | (1) |
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Develop Your Support Network |
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313 | (1) |
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313 | (1) |
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313 | (1) |
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314 | (1) |
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314 | (1) |
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Keep Your Sense of Humor Well-Oiled |
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314 | (1) |
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315 | (4) |
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315 | (1) |
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Everyone Eventually Needs a Wheelchair |
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315 | (1) |
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Because There's No Cure, There's Nothing You Can Do about Your MS |
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316 | (1) |
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People with MS Can't Handle Stress |
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316 | (1) |
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People with MS Shouldn't Have Children |
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317 | (1) |
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``Natural'' Treatments Are Safer |
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317 | (1) |
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No One Can Understand How You Feel |
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317 | (1) |
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Having a Relapse Means Your Medication Isn't Working |
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318 | (1) |
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Scientists Aren't Making Any Progress |
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318 | (1) |
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If You Can't Walk, Your Life Is Over |
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318 | (1) |
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Ten Tips for Trouble-Free Travel |
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319 | (4) |
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319 | (1) |
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Calm Your Medical Concerns |
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320 | (1) |
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Save Energy for the Fun Stuff |
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320 | (1) |
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Check Ahead for Accessibility |
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320 | (1) |
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321 | (1) |
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321 | (1) |
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Navigate Air Travel with Confidence |
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321 | (1) |
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Safely Pack Your Prescriptions |
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322 | (1) |
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322 | (1) |
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322 | (1) |
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323 | (2) |
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325 | (14) |
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Appendix B: Additional Resources |
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339 | (6) |
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Reading Other Books about MS |
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339 | (2) |
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Finding Helpful Information Online |
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341 | (4) |
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General information sites |
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342 | (1) |
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Assistive technology sites |
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342 | (1) |
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343 | (1) |
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Organizations and services |
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343 | (1) |
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Chat rooms and bulletin boards |
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344 | (1) |
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Appendix C: Medications Commonly Used in MS |
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345 | (4) |
Index |
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