This remarkable book is full of stories, rich first-hand accounts of the healing effects of being heard and valued; inspirational and up-lifting, yet firmly grounded in the challenges associated with living into later life, or of supporting those who do so. -- Bob Woods, Emeritus Professor of Clinical Psychology of Older People, Bangor University This page-turner of an important book works on so many levels by never losing sight of real people, either professionals or service users whose stories - if encouraged - come alive, enabling better quality of life for the individual to flourish. I know, because I have experienced narrative therapy as a recipient and as a co-facilitator in sessions, and my heartfelt wish is that through this book many others have this opportunity too.
This book does exactly what it says on the title page - it DOES empathetically challenge stigma, skilfully support connection and compassionately build hope.
The authors' insights resonate throughout, and people rather than their problems are their prime focus. Then by building trust and relationships through values-led practice we're taken on a positive story with both questions and possible solutions to support the reader.
Here is a key book on the subject to have by your side. -- Keith Oliver, Kent and Medway NHS Dementia Envoy, author of Dear Alzheimer's This beautiful book unravels the many taken for granted ways of looking and thinking in "living together" and "working" with older people and people living with dementia. It gently but firmly gives them back a multicolored and multi-layered face. The wealth of narrative, innovative practices in speaking, thinking and doing together with older people is a treasure chest that carefully opens up throughout the various chapters and each person involved is given a full voice. The authors advocate to give older people a central place in our work but also in our lives and society. This makes the book more than necessary! -- Sabine Vermeire, narrative and systemic psychotherapist, trainer and supervisor at Interactie-academie (Belgium) and The Institute of Narrative Therapy (UK) and author of Unravelling Trauma and Weaving Resilience with Systemic and Narrative Therapy This book is like an onion, layer upon layer is explored: the older person, their families, team members and wider systems. They return to the centre of the onion: us and we are invited to explore alternative discourses for our lives and ageing. -- Dr Carolien Lamers C Psychol, AFBPsS, social gerontologist and retired clinical psychologist
