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Running on Empty: Overcome Your Childhood Emotional Neglect [Pehme köide]

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  • Formaat: Paperback / softback, 250 pages, kõrgus x laius x paksus: 229x151x14 mm, kaal: 181 g, Illustrations
  • Ilmumisaeg: 18-Oct-2012
  • Kirjastus: Morgan James Publishing llc
  • ISBN-10: 161448242X
  • ISBN-13: 9781614482420
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  • Formaat: Paperback / softback, 250 pages, kõrgus x laius x paksus: 229x151x14 mm, kaal: 181 g, Illustrations
  • Ilmumisaeg: 18-Oct-2012
  • Kirjastus: Morgan James Publishing llc
  • ISBN-10: 161448242X
  • ISBN-13: 9781614482420
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Running on Empty is the first self-help book about Emotional Neglect: an invisible force from your childhood which you can't see, but may be affecting you profoundly to this day. It is about what didn't happen in your childhood, what wasn't said, and what cannot be remembered.

Do you sometimes feel as if you're just going through the motions in life? Are you good at looking and acting as if you're fine, but secretly feel lonely and disconnected? Perhaps you have a fine life and are good at your work, but somehow it's just not enough to make you happy.

If so, you are not alone. The world is full of people who have an innate sense that something is wrong with them. Who feel they live on the outside looking in, but have no explanation for their feeling and no way to put it into words. Who blame themselves for not being happier.

If you are one of these people, you may fear that you are not connected enough to your spouse, or that you don't feel pleasure or love as profoundly as others do. Perhaps when you do experience strong emotions, you have difficulty understanding or tolerating them. You may drink too much, or eat too much, or risk too much, in an attempt to feel something good.

In over twenty years of practicing psychology, many people have arrived in Jonice Webb's office, driven by the threat of divorce or the onset of depression, or by loneliness, and said, "Something is missing in me."

Running on Empty will give you clear strategies for how to heal, and offers a special chapter for mental health professionals. In the world of human suffering, this book is an Emotional Smart Bomb meant to eradicate the effects of an invisible enemy.


A large segment of the population struggles with feelings of being detached from themselves and their loved ones. They feel flawed, and blame themselves. Running on Empty will help them realize that they're suffering not because of something that happened to them in childhood, but because of something that didn't happen. It's the white space in their family picture, the background rather than the foreground. This will be the first self-help book to bring this invisible force to light, educate people about it, and teach them how to overcome it.

Preface xi
Acknowledgments xiii
Introduction xv
Emotional Neglect Questionnaire xx
PART I UNNING ON EMPTY
1(68)
Chapter 1 Why Wasn't the Tank Filled?
3(10)
The Ordinary Healthy Parent in Action
5(8)
Chapter 2 Twelve Ways to End up Empty
13(56)
Type 1 The Narcissistic Parent
14(5)
Type 2 The Authoritarian Parent
19(5)
Type 3 The Permissive Parent
24(6)
Type 4 The Bereaved Parent: Divorced or Widowed
30(5)
Type 5 The Addicted Parent
35(5)
Type 6 The Depressed Parent
40(3)
Type 7 The Workaholic Parent
43(4)
Type 8 The Parent with a Special Needs Family Member
47(4)
Type 9 The Achievement/Perfection Focused Parent
51(5)
Type 10 The Sociopathic Parent
56(6)
Type 11 Child as Parent
62(3)
Type 12 The Well-Meaning-hut-Neglected-Themselves Parent
65(4)
PART II OUT OF FUEL
69(46)
Chapter 3 The Neglected Child, All Grown Up
71(32)
1 Feelings of Emptiness
73(4)
2 Counter-Dependence
77(3)
3 Unrealistic Self-Appraisal
80(4)
4 No Compassion fir Self, Plenty fir Others
84(2)
5 Guilt and Shame: What is Wrong with Me?
86(3)
6 Self-Directed Anger, Self-Blame
89(1)
7 The Fatal Flaw (If People Really Know Me They Won't Like Me)
90(2)
8 Difficulty Nurturing Self and Others
92(2)
9 Poor Self-Discipline
94(4)
10 Alexithymia
98(5)
Chapter 4 Cognitive Secrets: The Special Problem of Suicidal Feelings
103(12)
PART III FILLING THE TANK
115(83)
Chapter 5 How Change Happens
117(3)
Factors That Get in the Way of Successful Change
118(2)
Chapter 6 Why Feelings Matter and What to Do with Them
120(18)
1 Understanding the purpose and value of your emotions
120(2)
2 Identifying and Naming Your Feelings
122(1)
3 Learning to Self-Monitor Your Feelings
123(4)
4 Accepting and Trusting Your Own Feelings
127(2)
5 Learning to Express Your Feelings Effectively
129(2)
6 Recognizing, Understanding and Valuing Emotions in Relationships
131(7)
Chapter 7 Self-Care
138(40)
Self-Care Part 1 Learning to Nurture Yourself
139(25)
Self Care Part 2 Improving Self Discipline
164(4)
Self-Care Part 3 Self-Soothing
168(5)
Self-Care Part 4 Having Compassion fir Yourself
173(5)
Chapter 8 Ending the Cycle: Giving Your Child What You Never Got
178(18)
1 Your Parental Guilt
179(1)
2 The Changes You Have Made So Far
180(1)
3 Identify Your Own Specific Parenting Challenges
181(15)
Chapter 9 For the Therapist
196(2)
Research 198(4)
Identification of Emotional Neglect 202(4)
Treatment 206(7)
Summary for the Therapist 213(1)
Conclusion 213(2)
Resources for Recovery 215(12)
References 227
Jonice Webb has a PhD in clinical psychology, and has been licensed to practice since 1991. She has a strong background in research, psychological testing and psychotherapy.  Webb has been the Director of three large outpatient clinics over the course of her career. She currently has a private psychotherapy practice in Lexington, MA, where she specializes in the treatment of couples and adolescents. Webb currently resides in the Boston area with her husband and two children.