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Instinctive Parenting: Trusting Ourselves to Raise Good Kids [Pehme köide]

  • Formaat: Paperback / softback, 288 pages, kõrgus x laius x paksus: 210x135x23 mm, kaal: 286 g
  • Ilmumisaeg: 12-Oct-2010
  • Kirjastus: Gallery
  • ISBN-10: 1439195803
  • ISBN-13: 9781439195802
Teised raamatud teemal:
  • Formaat: Paperback / softback, 288 pages, kõrgus x laius x paksus: 210x135x23 mm, kaal: 286 g
  • Ilmumisaeg: 12-Oct-2010
  • Kirjastus: Gallery
  • ISBN-10: 1439195803
  • ISBN-13: 9781439195802
Teised raamatud teemal:
From the founding editor-in-chief of Babble.com, a complete and completely reassuring guide that will show parents how to abandon their insecurities, trust their instincts, and enjoy raising a happy, considerate child.

What's the right way to parent? Venture into any playground or online message board and you'll find as many opinions as there are adults present. Every subject -- from sleep training to time-outs to pacifiers -- has its supporters and detractors, and every viewpoint can be backed up by a truckload of research and statistics.

It's enough to reduce a new parent to tears, if the 3 a.m. feedings and endless recitations of Goodnight Moon aren't doing that already. Yet there is a way to end the madness, to calm your fears, and to make those precious early years a source of joy for both of you. Ada Calhoun, a young mother herself, infuses Instinctive Parenting with the smart and candid approach that earned Babble an ASME nomination for General Excellence Online and close to two million readers. Her simple yet profound advice: Find what works for you and your family and ditch the anxiety and judgment.

Everyone wants to do what's best for his or her child, yet the fact is there is no universal "best." Whether you start solids at four months or eight, whether you co-sleep or Ferberize, whether Junior's mac'n'cheese is dayglo orange or 100 percent organic matters a lot less than other parenting books -- and other parents -- might have you believe. What does matter is providing the few absolute essentials (love, food, shelter) while teaching your little one how to be a kind, responsible human being. With its compelling mix of entertaining, hilarious fi rsthand accounts and refreshing common sense, Instinctive Parenting will show you how to do that -- and even show you how to retain your sanity, your friends, your sense of humor, and your personal life in the process.

Introduction: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love the Baby xi
Part One Shelter
On Shelter
3(4)
A Design Opportunity
7(4)
Who Are the People in Your Neighborhood?
11(4)
How Much Negativity Is Helpful?
15(5)
Registering: What You Really Need in the Nursery
20(3)
The Thousand-Dollar Question: What Kind of Stroller Are You?
23(3)
The Disgrace That is the United States's Leave Policy
26(5)
How We Think About Work
31(2)
The Truth About Cats and Dogs and Babies
33(3)
Blogs and Confessions
36(4)
TV or Not TV?
40(3)
Scary Stories
43(4)
Travels with Baby
47(2)
Marital Relations
49(6)
Those First Weeks Back from Leave
55(10)
Cars and Trucks and Things That Go
65(3)
Other People's Kids
68(5)
Share and Share Alike
73(4)
The Great Sleep-Training Debate
77(7)
Anxiety-Free Potty-Training
84(2)
Postpartum and Postpostpartum Depression
86(3)
Sex and Marriage
89(3)
Language Development Craziness
92(3)
The Almighty Nap
95(2)
Danger!
97(4)
School Days
101(4)
Becoming Like Our Parents---or Not
105(5)
First Friendships
110(2)
Cracking the Whip
112(5)
How Many Kids Should You Have?
117(6)
Part Two Food
On Food
123(4)
Defending Junk
127(3)
Booze and Drugs (For You, Not the Kid)
130(2)
Time to Eat
132(2)
A Modest Proposal: Bring Back Home Economics
134(3)
Snack Attack
137(2)
Allergy Alert Days
139(4)
The Evil Turkey Sandwich
143(3)
The Breastfeeding Wars
146(6)
Eating Together as a Family
152(7)
Part Three Love
On Love
159(4)
The Name Game
163(4)
When You're Pregnant, It Takes a Village to Judge You
167(7)
A Reality Check for Working Parents
174(6)
Here's to Babysitters
180(5)
Birth Stories
185(4)
Labor Plans and Realities
189(4)
Real Abuse
193(3)
The Hard Parts
196(6)
Party Time!
202(7)
Illness
209(4)
What We Talk About When We Talk About Our Kids
213(3)
Having Faith
216(4)
In Praise of Stephchildren
220(2)
Separation Anxiety
222(3)
Regretting Your Life
225(6)
Vaccination Paranoia
231(4)
The Great Circumcision Debate
235(3)
Toddlers in Love
238(4)
Taking Along the Kids
242(9)
Conclusion: Battling the Jinx 251(4)
Endnotes 255(6)
Acknowledgments 261
Ada Calhoun was the founding editor-in-chief of the award-winning parenting site Babble.com. She is the co-author of Gunn's Golden Rules: Life's Little Lessons for Making it Work, and has written for The New York Times, New York magazine, the New York Post, Salon.com and Time magazine. She lives in New York City with her husband and young son.