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Simple Guide to Sensitive Boys: How to Nurture Children and Avoid Trauma [Pehme köide]

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  • Formaat: Paperback / softback, 104 pages, kõrgus x laius x paksus: 196x126x12 mm, kaal: 102 g, B&W line drawings
  • Sari: Simple Guides
  • Ilmumisaeg: 19-Oct-2017
  • Kirjastus: Jessica Kingsley Publishers
  • ISBN-10: 1785923250
  • ISBN-13: 9781785923258
Teised raamatud teemal:
  • Formaat: Paperback / softback, 104 pages, kõrgus x laius x paksus: 196x126x12 mm, kaal: 102 g, B&W line drawings
  • Sari: Simple Guides
  • Ilmumisaeg: 19-Oct-2017
  • Kirjastus: Jessica Kingsley Publishers
  • ISBN-10: 1785923250
  • ISBN-13: 9781785923258
Teised raamatud teemal:
What do Pablo Picasso, Prince and Martin Luther King Jr have in common? All have been described as having been highly sensitive boys and all grew up to be outstanding, sensitive men.

Too often, adults think of sensitive boys as shy, anxious and inhibited. They are measured against society's ideas about 'manliness' -- that all boys are sociable, resilient and have endless supplies of energy. This highly readable guide is for any adult wanting to know how to understand and celebrate sensitive boys. It describes how thinking about boys in such old-fashioned ways can cause great harm, and make a difficult childhood all the more painful. The book highlights the real strengths shared by many sensitive boys - of being compassionate, highly creative, thoughtful, fiercely intelligent and witty. It also flips common negative clichés about sensitive boys being shy, anxious and prone to bullying to ask instead: what we can do to create a supportive environment in which they will flourish?

Full of simple yet sage advice, this book will help you to encourage boys to embrace their individuality, find their own place in the world, and to be the best they can be.

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Informative, helpful, and motivating. It stresses that some things need to be celebrated instead of fixed, and I am in complete support of that. Check it out! -- Jennifer Castro, mother of a sensitive boy (NetGalley) My hope is that a copy of this book will be everywhere where boys and those raising them can be found, and that it becomes THE gift to a family every time a boy is born. -- Jane Evans, speaker, trainer and author specialising in the support of children's mental health

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A simple but sage guide for adults on how to support sensitive boys
Foreword 9(4)
Jane Evans
1 Understanding Sensitive Boys
13(12)
Our expectation of men and boys
15(4)
Overwhelm and turmoil
19(3)
Building resilience
22(3)
2 How Are Boys Different?
25(9)
`Boys will be boys'
25(1)
`Boys don't cry'
26(2)
The important role of sensitive men in our society
28(1)
Scientific evidence of male sensitivity
29(1)
So what is masculinity?
30(4)
3 Feeling Different, Feeling Rejected
34(9)
`Sticks and stones may break my bones, but names will never hurt me?'
34(2)
The need for emotional connection
36(2)
Rejection and physical pain
38(1)
The value of creativity
39(1)
The sense of belonging
40(3)
4 Putting on Invisible Armour or Shutting Down
43(9)
The feeling of being skinless
43(1)
Creating an emotional armour
44(1)
Shutting down
45(3)
How can a sensitive male come back to life again?
48(4)
5 Our Subconscious and the Impact of Bullying
52(11)
Parent pressure and expectation
52(1)
The impact of early years
53(1)
The threat response and the consequences of feeling fear
54(4)
Our subconscious responses
58(1)
The power of shame
59(1)
Bullying can cause deep shame
60(3)
6 Relationships that Create Resilience
63(10)
Attachment and attunement
63(10)
7 Managing Fear and Worry
73(8)
Protecting sensitive boys
74(7)
8 What Does Anxiety Look Like in Children?
81(9)
Ways to reduce anxiety
83(1)
Self-regulation activities
84(1)
Helping children to understand emotions
85(1)
How to discipline a sensitive child
86(2)
Perfectionism
88(2)
9 Believing the Best about Children
90(7)
Reflecting on how the sensitive boy is doing emotionally
90(1)
Emotional connection
91(1)
Confidence versus arrogance
91(1)
Our mission to change society for the better
92(2)
References and Recommended Reading
94(3)
Index 97
Betsy de Thierry is a practising psychotherapist and with over 30 years of experience and knowledge within the field of Complex Trauma & navigating Trauma Recovery. She is the founder of Trauma Recovery Global, which provides training and consultancy and partnerships with select organisations and practitioners to licence her Trauma Recovery Focused Model (TRFM) in 34 nations. She is also the founder of the Trauma Recovery Centre (TRC), a charity specialising in recovery from complex trauma and the founder of CTRN (Childhood Trauma Recovery Network UK). Betsy is also a qualified primary school teacher and is a mum of four brilliant sons. Jane Evans is a Trauma Parenting Specialist and Freelance Trainer. This book has grown from her experiences working directly with children, young people and parents over many years as a respite foster carer, a domestic violence parenting worker, a registered child minder and a family support worker. She wrote the book in response to feedback from parents, carers and workers who wanted a sensitive story to support young children who have grown up around family violence.