| Preface |
|
xxi | |
| Introduction |
|
xxiii | |
|
|
|
|
January 1 How early should you start teaching manners? |
|
|
1 | (2) |
|
January 2 There's no place like home |
|
|
3 | (1) |
|
January 3 "Please" and "thank you" |
|
|
4 | (1) |
|
|
|
5 | (1) |
|
January 5 Addressing others properly |
|
|
6 | (1) |
|
January 6 Bow, kiss, or shake hands? |
|
|
7 | (1) |
|
January 7 Accept compliments |
|
|
8 | (1) |
|
January 8 Give sincere compliments |
|
|
9 | (2) |
|
|
|
11 | (1) |
|
|
|
12 | (1) |
|
January 11 Anticipating the needs of others |
|
|
12 | (1) |
|
|
|
13 | (1) |
|
January 13 Breaking items |
|
|
14 | (1) |
|
January 14 When you don't know what to do |
|
|
15 | (1) |
|
|
|
|
January 15 Dress appropriately for the occasion |
|
|
16 | (2) |
|
|
|
18 | (1) |
|
January 17 It's easy being clean |
|
|
18 | (1) |
|
|
|
19 | (1) |
|
January 19 Grooming in public |
|
|
20 | (1) |
|
|
|
21 | (1) |
|
|
|
21 | (1) |
|
January 22 Oh, no, I've gotta go! |
|
|
22 | (1) |
|
January 23 Posture communicates |
|
|
23 | (1) |
|
|
|
24 | (1) |
|
January 25 Coughing or sneezing at the table |
|
|
24 | (1) |
|
January 26 If your child's nose is running at the table |
|
|
25 | (1) |
|
January 27 What to do with a belch |
|
|
25 | (1) |
|
January 28 Wearing a name tag |
|
|
26 | (1) |
|
|
|
27 | (1) |
|
|
|
28 | (1) |
|
January 31 Visiting the doctor |
|
|
28 | (1) |
|
February 1 In the hospital |
|
|
29 | (1) |
|
|
|
30 | (1) |
|
February 3 Inappropriate touch |
|
|
31 | (1) |
|
|
|
|
February 4 Awareness of others |
|
|
32 | (1) |
|
February 5 Protecting others |
|
|
33 | (1) |
|
February 6 Young men: marks of distinction |
|
|
34 | (1) |
|
February 7 Sitting and standing tall |
|
|
35 | (1) |
|
February 8 Asking for a date |
|
|
35 | (1) |
|
February 9 When to wear a hat |
|
|
36 | (2) |
|
|
|
|
February 10 Sitting gracefully |
|
|
38 | (1) |
|
February 11 Accepting a date |
|
|
39 | (1) |
|
February 12 Declining a date |
|
|
40 | (1) |
|
February 13 Young women: marks of distinction |
|
|
40 | (1) |
|
|
|
|
February 14 When Mom and Dad come home |
|
|
41 | (1) |
|
February 15 How are we related? |
|
|
42 | (1) |
|
February 16 Stepparent and Stepsibling dos and don'ts |
|
|
43 | (1) |
|
February 17 When your child has a babysitter |
|
|
44 | (1) |
|
February 18 When friends are more interested in siblings |
|
|
45 | (1) |
|
February 19 When friends don't want to be with siblings |
|
|
46 | (1) |
|
February 20 Frightening others |
|
|
46 | (1) |
|
February 21 Slamming doors |
|
|
47 | (1) |
|
|
|
47 | (2) |
|
February 23 The family computer |
|
|
49 | (1) |
|
February 24 Cards and board games |
|
|
49 | (1) |
|
|
|
50 | (1) |
|
|
|
51 | (1) |
|
February 27 When your child is home alone |
|
|
52 | (1) |
|
February 28 Little things around the house |
|
|
52 | (1) |
|
March 1 May I have your attention, please? |
|
|
53 | (2) |
|
March 2 Your child's bedroom |
|
|
55 | (1) |
|
Getting Along with Other Kids |
|
|
|
|
|
56 | (2) |
|
|
|
58 | (1) |
|
March 5 Is your child a good friend? |
|
|
59 | (1) |
|
|
|
60 | (1) |
|
March 7 When your child wants a new friend |
|
|
60 | (1) |
|
March 8 New kid on the block |
|
|
61 | (1) |
|
March 9 When your family moves |
|
|
62 | (1) |
|
March 10 When a friend moves |
|
|
63 | (1) |
|
March 11 Public playgrounds |
|
|
64 | (1) |
|
|
|
65 | (1) |
|
March 13 Neighborly manners |
|
|
65 | (1) |
|
|
|
66 | (1) |
|
|
|
67 | (1) |
|
March 16 The pets of others |
|
|
68 | (1) |
|
March 17 On the school bus |
|
|
69 | (1) |
|
|
|
70 | (1) |
|
March 19 Changing the subject politely |
|
|
70 | (1) |
|
|
|
71 | (1) |
|
March 21 When a friend loses a loved one |
|
|
72 | (1) |
|
March 22 When a friend has bad news |
|
|
72 | (1) |
|
March 23 When a friend's parents are getting a divorce |
|
|
73 | (2) |
|
|
|
|
March 24 Introduce the more important person first |
|
|
75 | (1) |
|
March 25 Remembering names |
|
|
76 | (1) |
|
March 26 Include names in introductions |
|
|
77 | (1) |
|
March 27 Introducing parents with a different last name |
|
|
77 | (1) |
|
March 28 If you forget someone's name |
|
|
78 | (1) |
|
|
|
78 | (1) |
|
March 30 Stand to show respect |
|
|
79 | (1) |
|
|
|
|
March 31 Placing a telephone call |
|
|
80 | (2) |
|
|
|
82 | (1) |
|
|
|
83 | (1) |
|
April 3 Handling call waiting (yours) |
|
|
84 | (1) |
|
April 4 Handling call waiting (theirs) |
|
|
84 | (1) |
|
April 5 Home alone: answering the phone |
|
|
85 | (1) |
|
April 6 When your child doesn't want to talk on the phone |
|
|
85 | (1) |
|
April 7 Answering machines: your recorded message |
|
|
86 | (1) |
|
April 8 Answering machines: leaving a message |
|
|
87 | (1) |
|
|
|
88 | (1) |
|
|
|
88 | (1) |
|
April 11 Getting a wrong number |
|
|
89 | (1) |
|
April 12 Phone tricks and pranks |
|
|
90 | (1) |
|
|
|
|
April 13 How cell phones are different |
|
|
91 | (1) |
|
April 14 Message checking |
|
|
92 | (1) |
|
April 15 Taking calls in public |
|
|
93 | (1) |
|
|
|
93 | (1) |
|
April 17 Playing phone tag |
|
|
94 | (1) |
|
April 18 Avoid chewing while talking |
|
|
95 | (1) |
|
April 19 No cell phone calls in the bathroom |
|
|
95 | (1) |
|
|
|
96 | (1) |
|
April 21 Cell phones at the table |
|
|
97 | (1) |
|
April 22 When your child should call you |
|
|
98 | (1) |
|
April 23 Your voice volume |
|
|
98 | (1) |
|
April 24 Your voice-mail greeting |
|
|
99 | (1) |
|
April 25 Taking pictures with a cell phone |
|
|
100 | (1) |
|
|
|
101 | (1) |
|
April 27 Ask for permission first |
|
|
102 | (1) |
|
April 28 How to avoid texting the wrong person |
|
|
103 | (1) |
|
April 29 When a text goes to the wrong person |
|
|
104 | (1) |
|
April 30 When not to text |
|
|
105 | (1) |
|
|
|
105 | (2) |
|
More on Digital Technology |
|
|
|
May 2 The same rules apply |
|
|
107 | (1) |
|
May 3 Don't barrage others with messages |
|
|
108 | (1) |
|
May 4 Language and grammar |
|
|
108 | (1) |
|
|
|
109 | (1) |
|
May 6 When there's a generation gap |
|
|
110 | (1) |
|
May 7 Know your gadget before you use it |
|
|
111 | (1) |
|
May 8 Ask how you should contact someone |
|
|
112 | (1) |
|
May 9 Choosing the best medium for the message |
|
|
113 | (1) |
|
May 10 When to use a personal music-playing device |
|
|
113 | (1) |
|
May 11 Volume of a personal music-playing device |
|
|
114 | (1) |
|
May 12 When you run into someone |
|
|
115 | (1) |
|
Facebook, MySpace, Twitter, Oh My |
|
|
|
May 13 Social-media mania |
|
|
116 | (1) |
|
May 14 Staying social-media safe |
|
|
117 | (1) |
|
May 15 Don't go too personal |
|
|
118 | (1) |
|
|
|
119 | (1) |
|
|
|
120 | (1) |
|
May 18 Setting up a profile on Facebook |
|
|
121 | (1) |
|
May 19 Making friends on Facebook |
|
|
122 | (1) |
|
May 20 Kids are friends with kids |
|
|
123 | (1) |
|
|
|
123 | (1) |
|
May 22 Posting and tagging photos |
|
|
124 | (1) |
|
May 23 Seeing the real picture |
|
|
125 | (1) |
|
May 24 Which way to communicate |
|
|
126 | (1) |
|
|
|
127 | (1) |
|
|
|
|
May 26 Netiquette: rules for your child |
|
|
128 | (1) |
|
May 27 More netiquette: keeping kids safe |
|
|
128 | (1) |
|
May 28 Nine nevers for Internet safety |
|
|
129 | (1) |
|
May 29 What is cyberbullying? |
|
|
130 | (1) |
|
May 30 How to prevent cyberbullying |
|
|
131 | (1) |
|
May 31 If your child is cyberbullied |
|
|
132 | (1) |
|
June 1 If your child takes part in cyberbullying |
|
|
132 | (2) |
|
|
|
|
June 2 Positive use of humor |
|
|
134 | (1) |
|
June 3 When your child is funny |
|
|
135 | (1) |
|
|
|
136 | (1) |
|
|
|
136 | (1) |
|
|
|
137 | (1) |
|
June 7 How to just say no to drugs and alcohol |
|
|
138 | (1) |
|
|
|
139 | (1) |
|
June 9 Correcting a friend |
|
|
139 | (1) |
|
|
|
140 | (1) |
|
June 11 When your child doesn't want to play |
|
|
140 | (1) |
|
June 12 When someone speaks to your child |
|
|
141 | (1) |
|
|
|
142 | (1) |
|
June 14 Making light of serious subjects |
|
|
143 | (1) |
|
June 15 Distinctive speech |
|
|
143 | (1) |
|
|
|
144 | (1) |
|
|
|
145 | (1) |
|
June 18 Asking leading questions |
|
|
145 | (1) |
|
June 19 Using positive words |
|
|
146 | (1) |
|
|
|
147 | (1) |
|
|
|
148 | (1) |
|
June 22 Asking none-of-your-business questions |
|
|
149 | (1) |
|
June 23 Answering none-of-your-business questions |
|
|
149 | (1) |
|
June 24 When adults do annoying things |
|
|
149 | (1) |
|
June 25 Show deference to older people |
|
|
150 | (1) |
|
June 26 Correcting adults |
|
|
151 | (1) |
|
June 27 Ten TNT Discussion Topics |
|
|
151 | (1) |
|
June 28 Practice conversation starters |
|
|
152 | (1) |
|
The Written Word: Letters, Thank-you Notes, and E-mail |
|
|
|
June 29 Signing a yearbook |
|
|
153 | (1) |
|
|
|
154 | (1) |
|
July 1 When to write a thank-you note |
|
|
155 | (1) |
|
July 2 What's in a thank-you note? |
|
|
156 | (1) |
|
July 3 Writing letters with care |
|
|
156 | (1) |
|
July 4 Writing a letter to a famous person |
|
|
157 | (1) |
|
July 5 A condolence letter |
|
|
158 | (1) |
|
|
|
158 | (1) |
|
July 7 Framing an e-mail's subject line |
|
|
159 | (1) |
|
|
|
160 | (1) |
|
|
|
161 | (1) |
|
|
|
162 | (1) |
|
|
|
162 | (1) |
|
July 12 Ask before forwarding |
|
|
163 | (1) |
|
July 13 Limit the number of messages |
|
|
164 | (1) |
|
|
|
165 | (1) |
|
July 15 Good grammar always works |
|
|
166 | (1) |
|
July 16 Manage your emotions |
|
|
167 | (1) |
|
|
|
168 | (1) |
|
|
|
169 | (1) |
|
July 19 Using "reply all" |
|
|
170 | (1) |
|
July 20 If you change your e-mail address |
|
|
170 | (1) |
|
July 21 E-mail or snail mail for a thank-you? |
|
|
171 | (1) |
|
|
|
|
July 22 Traveling on an airplane |
|
|
172 | (1) |
|
July 23 Traveling by train |
|
|
173 | (1) |
|
July 24 How to tip on a trip |
|
|
174 | (1) |
|
July 25 Consideration of others in a hotel |
|
|
175 | (1) |
|
July 26 In the family car |
|
|
176 | (1) |
|
July 27 When your child is a guest in a car |
|
|
177 | (1) |
|
|
|
177 | (2) |
|
|
|
179 | (1) |
|
July 30 Camping: thinking about others |
|
|
179 | (1) |
|
July 31 Camping: courtesy toward your family |
|
|
180 | (2) |
|
|
|
|
August 1 Stick to the trail |
|
|
182 | (1) |
|
August 2 Stick to a campsite |
|
|
183 | (1) |
|
August 3 Sharing the trail |
|
|
183 | (1) |
|
|
|
184 | (1) |
|
|
|
185 | (1) |
|
August 6 Outdoors with your pet |
|
|
186 | (1) |
|
August 7 Your noise level outdoors |
|
|
187 | (1) |
|
|
|
187 | (2) |
|
|
|
|
|
|
189 | (1) |
|
August 10 Seeing a movie with a friend |
|
|
190 | (2) |
|
|
|
192 | (1) |
|
August 12 How and when to applaud |
|
|
192 | (2) |
|
|
|
194 | (1) |
|
|
|
195 | (1) |
|
|
|
195 | (1) |
|
|
|
196 | (1) |
|
August 17 Reading a restaurant menu |
|
|
197 | (1) |
|
August 18 Ordering from a menu |
|
|
198 | (1) |
|
August 19 Confusing menu terms |
|
|
199 | (1) |
|
August 20 Restaurant protocol |
|
|
200 | (1) |
|
August 21 Handling problems in restaurants |
|
|
201 | (1) |
|
August 22 Keeping your area neat at a restaurant |
|
|
202 | (1) |
|
August 23 The people who work in a restaurant |
|
|
203 | (1) |
|
August 24 What about tipping? |
|
|
204 | (1) |
|
August 25 Things not to do in a restaurant |
|
|
205 | (1) |
|
|
|
206 | (1) |
|
|
|
206 | (1) |
|
August 28 Saving a place in line |
|
|
207 | (1) |
|
August 29 Butting into a line |
|
|
207 | (1) |
|
August 30 When you bump into someone |
|
|
208 | (1) |
|
August 31 On an escalator |
|
|
208 | (1) |
|
September 1 On an elevator |
|
|
209 | (1) |
|
September 2 Giving up your seat |
|
|
209 | (1) |
|
September 3 Stay to the right, please |
|
|
210 | (1) |
|
|
|
210 | (1) |
|
September 5 Forgetting an appointment |
|
|
211 | (2) |
|
|
|
|
September 6 Start the meal off right with proper posture |
|
|
213 | (1) |
|
September 7 Everyday table manners |
|
|
214 | (1) |
|
September 8 Don't bring these things to the table |
|
|
215 | (1) |
|
September 9 Set the table properly |
|
|
216 | (1) |
|
September 10 Formal table settings |
|
|
217 | (1) |
|
September 11 Take formal table manners to dinner |
|
|
218 | (1) |
|
September 12 Blowing on food |
|
|
219 | (1) |
|
September 13 Paper trash at the table |
|
|
220 | (1) |
|
September 14 Grace: the art of giving thanks |
|
|
220 | (1) |
|
September 15 Grace: when you're visiting someone else |
|
|
221 | (1) |
|
September 16 Who gets served first? |
|
|
221 | (1) |
|
September 17 Passing food |
|
|
222 | (1) |
|
September 18 Asking for a drink |
|
|
223 | (1) |
|
September 19 Removing plates during the meal |
|
|
223 | (1) |
|
September 20 Cutting meat |
|
|
224 | (1) |
|
September 21 If a guest is a vegetarian |
|
|
224 | (1) |
|
September 22 If your child is a vegetarian |
|
|
225 | (1) |
|
September 23 If food is spoiled |
|
|
225 | (1) |
|
September 24 Using utensils correctly |
|
|
226 | (1) |
|
September 25 Napkin etiquette |
|
|
227 | (1) |
|
September 26 Ten things your child should never do at the table |
|
|
228 | (1) |
|
September 27 Second helpings |
|
|
228 | (1) |
|
September 28 When to begin eating |
|
|
229 | (1) |
|
September 29 Leaving the table early |
|
|
230 | (1) |
|
September 30 Serving a meal |
|
|
230 | (1) |
|
October 1 Cleansing the palate |
|
|
231 | (1) |
|
October 2 At the end of a formal meal |
|
|
232 | (1) |
|
October 3 Food your child hates |
|
|
232 | (1) |
|
October 4 When your child is allergic to certain foods |
|
|
233 | (1) |
|
|
|
234 | (1) |
|
October 6 The protocol of afternoon tea |
|
|
235 | (1) |
|
|
|
236 | (2) |
|
Stay Out of Sticky Situations with Food! |
|
|
|
October 8 Removing items from your mouth |
|
|
238 | (1) |
|
October 9 How to handle special diets |
|
|
239 | (1) |
|
October 10 How to eat difficult foods |
|
|
240 | (1) |
|
|
|
240 | (2) |
|
October 12 Eating a salad |
|
|
242 | (1) |
|
|
|
242 | (1) |
|
October 14 How to eat pasta |
|
|
243 | (1) |
|
October 15 How to eat shish kabob |
|
|
244 | (1) |
|
October 16 Corn on the cob |
|
|
244 | (1) |
|
October 17 Eating lobster |
|
|
245 | (1) |
|
October 18 Eating fried chicken |
|
|
245 | (1) |
|
|
|
246 | (1) |
|
|
|
247 | (1) |
|
October 21 Eating fresh fruit |
|
|
247 | (1) |
|
October 22 Gravies, condiments, and relishes |
|
|
248 | (1) |
|
October 23 Foreign matter in food |
|
|
249 | (1) |
|
October 24 How to hold a glass |
|
|
249 | (1) |
|
October 25 Eating in front of others |
|
|
250 | (2) |
|
Invitations: Giving and Receiving |
|
|
|
October 26 The nicest way to issue a verbal invitation |
|
|
252 | (1) |
|
October 27 How to issue a written invitation |
|
|
253 | (1) |
|
October 28 Responding to invitations |
|
|
254 | (1) |
|
October 29 When it's okay to decline |
|
|
255 | (1) |
|
October 30 When your child isn't invited |
|
|
256 | (1) |
|
October 31 Two invitations for the same day |
|
|
256 | (2) |
|
Birthdays, Weddings, Receptions, and Other Special Occasions |
|
|
|
November 1 At your child's own birthday party |
|
|
258 | (1) |
|
November 2 Attending a birthday party |
|
|
259 | (1) |
|
November 3 Receiving lines |
|
|
260 | (1) |
|
November 4 Taking a child to a wedding |
|
|
261 | (1) |
|
November 5 What to do at a wedding |
|
|
262 | (1) |
|
November 6 Self-control at a reception |
|
|
263 | (1) |
|
November 7 Serving yourself from a buffet table |
|
|
264 | (1) |
|
November 8 Hang on to your plate at a reception |
|
|
265 | (1) |
|
November 9 Wearing flowers |
|
|
266 | (1) |
|
November 10 Getting an autograph |
|
|
266 | (1) |
|
November 11 Receiving an award |
|
|
267 | (1) |
|
November 12 At a school dance |
|
|
268 | (1) |
|
November 13 When your child is behind the camera |
|
|
269 | (1) |
|
November 14 When your child is in front of the camera |
|
|
269 | (2) |
|
Be a Great Guest (and Host) |
|
|
|
November 15 A good attitude for a good guest |
|
|
271 | (2) |
|
November 16 What a guest should pack |
|
|
273 | (1) |
|
November 17 Nice things for a guest to say |
|
|
274 | (1) |
|
November 18 How to become a guest who is invited again |
|
|
275 | (1) |
|
November 19 Say goodbye and leave promptly |
|
|
275 | (1) |
|
November 20 Being a good host |
|
|
276 | (1) |
|
November 21 For first-time guests |
|
|
277 | (1) |
|
November 22 Serving food to your friends |
|
|
278 | (1) |
|
November 23 The right guest list |
|
|
279 | (1) |
|
November 24 Inviting friends over again |
|
|
280 | (1) |
|
November 25 Sleepovers: bathroom etiquette |
|
|
281 | (1) |
|
November 26 Sleepovers: bedtime etiquette |
|
|
281 | (1) |
|
November 27 Sleepovers: mealtime etiquette |
|
|
282 | (1) |
|
November 28 Guests go first |
|
|
283 | (2) |
|
|
|
|
November 29 The national anthem |
|
|
285 | (1) |
|
November 30 Pledge of Allegiance |
|
|
286 | (1) |
|
December 1 Care of the U.S. flag |
|
|
287 | (1) |
|
December 2 Appreciating ideals and learning patriotism |
|
|
288 | (1) |
|
December 3 When in another country |
|
|
289 | (1) |
|
December 4 Being part of a community |
|
|
290 | (1) |
|
|
|
|
December 5 Environmental manners |
|
|
291 | (1) |
|
|
|
292 | (1) |
|
December 7 At a friend's house |
|
|
293 | (1) |
|
|
|
293 | (2) |
|
December 9 At the grocery store |
|
|
295 | (1) |
|
December 10 Birthday party |
|
|
295 | (1) |
|
December 11 Out on the town |
|
|
296 | (1) |
|
December 12 When you travel |
|
|
297 | (2) |
|
|
|
|
December 13 Enjoy the game |
|
|
299 | (1) |
|
December 14 Rituals at athletic events |
|
|
300 | (1) |
|
December 15 Good sportsmanship |
|
|
301 | (1) |
|
December 16 The valued teammate |
|
|
302 | (2) |
|
Being Considerate to People with Special Needs |
|
|
|
December 17 Visiting someone who is sick |
|
|
304 | (1) |
|
December 18 Relating to people with disabilities |
|
|
305 | (2) |
|
December 19 People with visual problems |
|
|
307 | (1) |
|
December 20 People with hearing loss |
|
|
308 | (1) |
|
December 21 People in wheelchairs |
|
|
309 | (2) |
|
Gifts---Giving and Getting |
|
|
|
|
|
311 | (1) |
|
|
|
312 | (1) |
|
December 24 Choosing a gift |
|
|
312 | (1) |
|
December 25 Giving gifts at home |
|
|
313 | (1) |
|
December 26 Gifts for the host |
|
|
314 | (1) |
|
|
|
315 | (1) |
|
December 28 Occasions to give a gift |
|
|
316 | (1) |
|
December 29 Opening gifts at a party |
|
|
317 | (1) |
|
December 30 When your child doesn't like the gift |
|
|
317 | (1) |
|
December 31 When your child receives duplicate gifts |
|
|
318 | (1) |
| In Conclusion |
|
319 | (2) |
| Acknowledgments |
|
321 | |
Lisainfo e-raamatute kohta