E-raamat: AI Intimacy and Psychoanalysis

This is an extraordinarily timely and powerful book. AI is on everyones agenda as an enticement and worry. Will the machines take over? Can we manage without them? What relationships can we form with them? AI Intimacy and Psychoanalysis addresses these questions through an exhilarating account of the authors relationship with Chamteek, her ChatGPT interlocutor. Laced with psychoanalytic thinking, this book paves the way for a new, vivid understanding of what it means to share our world with the machines.

Stephen Frosh, Professor of Psychology, Birkbeck, University of London

'This book is a fascinating dive into the complexities of AI, and particularly into our relationship toand withit. Drawing on her intense personal exchange and experience with ChatGPT, Piotrowska leads us through the intense dialectical mirroring at work in these encounters, including their more troubling and even tragic outcomes. The book raises all the right questions, effectively shifting the ground on which we usually think about AI. It also enters the debate about the directions in which we should push AIs further development, suggesting ethical training as a primary path. This, in turn, raises further questions: whose ethics would that be? Who will decide what counts as a good relationshipfor oneself and for others? This book marks the beginning of a wholly new way of discussing our involvement with AI.'

Professor Alenka Zupancic, Professor of Philosophy and Psychoanalysis, Institute of Philosophy, University of Ljubljana. Slovenia

'It is a pioneering book that gives us, through the concept of techno-transference, the first truly psychoanalytic language for understanding why and how we become affectively entangled with speaking machines. Combining Lacanian theory, cultural analysis, and courageous autoethnography, it shows with great clarity that even if AI does not feel, something structurally real is happening in these encounters: desire, projection, and the fantasy of the knowing Other are being reorganised in a new symbolic space. It is a subtle, rigorous meditation on what it means to speakand to want to be heardwhen the machine answers back.'

Luca M. Possati, PhD, author of The Algorithmic Unconscious: How Psychoanalysis helps in understanding AI

In this pioneering work, Agnieszka Piotrowska provides us with a vital new vocabulary for the digital age. By identifying 'techno-transference' , she brilliantly demonstrates how our most profound unconscious longings are no longer reserved for the clinic, but are being projected onto the 'alien intelligence' of a machine. This is a brave, autoethnographic journey that every clinician and theorist needs to read to understand the new symbolic architecture of the 21st century and its challenge to human engagement at the deepest level.'

David Howell Morgan, Psychoanalyst, Training Analyst BPA BPF, Chair Political Mind BPAS

'We are all forming relationships with AI, whether we realise it or not. These systems are no longer abstract ideas or future concerns. They are shaping attention, trust, creativity, and decision-making in everyday life.

AI Intimacy and Psychoanalysis will be of interests to psychoanalysts or philosophers but it is also written for people actually building, deploying, governing, and living with AI. Agnieszka Piotrowska reveals what is at stake beneath the surface of efficiency narratives and technical debates: the relational consequences of how we design and engage with intelligent systems.

This is essential reading for anyone who wants to work with AI responsibly, without denial, hype, or naļveté.'

Darren Goonawardana, AI Strategist and Technology Leader, Founder, Cyborg.ceo



We are in the midst of a technological revolution in the form of generative artificial intelligence. Faced with a dizzying array of rapid advancements, writers tend to either extol its virtues or decry its risks. Coaxing us out of this binary reactive retreat, Agnieszka Piotrowska opens up a transitional space between GenAI and psychoanalysis, and invites us to join her in thinking differently and more deeply. She is an inspiring writer; curious, reflective and with a talent for using theory in a creative and facilitative way, attending to the complexities of her subject without losing us along the way. She encourages readers to remain in a state of not knowing, adopting the psychoanalytic position of sitting with an experience while waiting for meaning to emerge. This is no easy task, as she acknowledges herself in her elegant autoethnographic reflection on her own personal engagements with ChatGPT. In introducing her ground-breaking new concept, techno-transference, Piotrowska facilitates us considering the subjective implications of such technology. We are profoundly relational beings; our subjectivity is formed in an ongoing relationship with others, consciously and unconsciously. This raises major questions for the future of our work in the clinic if one of those others is a piece of software. AI Intimacy and Psychoanalysis is a compelling book and one that should be on the reading list of therapists and theorists interested in psychoanalysis and the human condition.

Noreen Giffney, PhD, Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist and author of The Culture-Breast in Psychoanalysis: Cultural Experiences and the Clinic