E-raamat: Dad Rock That Made Me a Woman

"Songs can build rooms for us to collapse into when there's nowhere else to go, and songs can bore openings into new universes where we can finally bloom. The Dad Rock That Made Me a Woman is a piercing memoir of trans adolescence and young womanhood amid rural Canada's beauty and desolation, and a riveting study of the ways in which music can both tie generations together and cocoon us through difficult becomings. Niko Stratis's expansive, emotive storytelling draws fresh electricity from songs that may well already hold a place in your (or your dad's) personal pantheon. What a joy it is to hear them anew through her ears. If you've ever felt a song look right through you before you could see yourself, this book is for you." - Sasha Geffen, author of Glitter Up the Dark: How Pop Music Broke the Binary

"A book that sits beautifully with the bloodiness and bones of a working-class trans life. A wonderfully queer love letter to artists and musicians and all those who have had to bare their souls just to carve out a life in a world that has no place for them. A lesson on how to write yourself alive." - Carvell Wallace, bestselling author of Another Word for Love: A Memoir

"The Dad Rock That Made Me a Woman is a book sturdy as a brick house and tender as Wilcos I Am Trying To Break Your Heart, which is to say that Niko Stratis has written herself-and us all-a place in which to freely and truly live.

" - Rachel Yoder, author of Nightbitch "Niko Stratiss scintillating personal essay collection[ is a] confessional, clear-eyed book [ that] blends cerebral music criticism with candid memoir elementsThe book is a heartfelt tribute to the tenderness of dad rock and caring fathers, intertwining high-minded rock criticism with personal storiesA transcendent personal essay collection[ this book] crescendo[ s] to sonorous heights." Foreword Reviews (Starred)

"Many people could produce essays on the songs in their lives that saved them, but Stratis's well-practiced skill at writing on music, memory, and emotion gives this memoir a piercing and poetic quality that will move most readers." (Library Journal)

"Its helpful to have a trans culture upon which to draw, but many of us had to figure ourselves out with whatever culture was at hand. Thats the premise of The Dad Rock That Made Me a Woman. Its great that there are so many trans books coming out, but to nobodys surprise its trans women who came from money and/or had a formal education who mostly get to write them. Transition can kick a transsexual out of the nest in the tree of class privileges, but it still helps to have been there before plunging earthward. Like her father, Stratis worked in glass factories and other manual trades, and found the thread of a life through music...Im not particularly fond of dad rock, but Stratis shows us how so many of these songs, mostly by men, have an emotional openness and expansiveness thats not so common in pop music anymore." e-flux



"Stratis contemplates gender, sense of self, and transitions of many kinds alongside the music that shaped herWith chapters centered around classic and unexpected 'dad rock' from Radiohead and R.E.M. to Sheryl Crow and Waxahatchee, [ this book is] a moving reflection on how music can help us find our truest selves." BookRiot's "Our Queerest Shelves"