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Introduction |
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5 | (1) |
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6 | (4) |
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10 | (5) |
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1 On love: between a social bond and an emotion |
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17 | (40) |
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17 | (3) |
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1.2 The whys and why-nots of critical theory and feminist analysis in order to define and work with love |
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20 | (7) |
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27 | (8) |
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1.4 The triangular theory of love |
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35 | (2) |
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1.5 Niklas Luhmann on love and intimacy |
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37 | (6) |
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1.6 Would Luhmann consider love as an emotion? |
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43 | (1) |
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44 | (3) |
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1.8 Pulling different strings together: Eva Illouz |
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47 | (5) |
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1.9 A Brief Review: A First Balance |
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52 | (5) |
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2 Love as a second-order form |
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57 | (24) |
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57 | (1) |
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2.2 Love as an emotion and as a social bond |
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57 | (4) |
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2.3 On second-order forms: what is a second-order form? |
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61 | (6) |
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2.4 Could love be a form of the second order? |
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67 | (3) |
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2.5 From love as an emotion to love as a second-order form |
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70 | (4) |
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2.6 The conditions for love as a second-order form: on the changing nature of society and its forms and apriorities |
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74 | (3) |
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2.7 A Brief Review: A Second Balance |
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77 | (4) |
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81 | (62) |
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3 Why and how could love become the predominant form of the second order? |
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83 | (33) |
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3.2 From the crisis before to the crisis after first modernity: why was love able to become a second-order form? |
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86 | (6) |
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3.3 The changes of the three apriorities during the next modernity crisis |
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92 | (7) |
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3.4 On gratitude and faithfulness |
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99 | (7) |
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3.5 Western trajectory to modernity and second-order forms |
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106 | (3) |
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3.6 A Brief Review: A Third Balance |
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109 | (7) |
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4 How did love become the predominant form of the second order? |
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116 | (27) |
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116 | (1) |
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4.2 From faithfulness to love and back: first steps in a history of love |
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117 | (6) |
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4.3 Towards the time of love |
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123 | (5) |
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4.4 Becoming a second-order form: love in modernity |
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128 | (9) |
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4.5 A Brief Review: A Fourth Balance |
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137 | (6) |
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PART III An experience of love |
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5 On rituals of the second order, second-order myths and love rituals as a special version |
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5.1 From rituals to second-order form rituals |
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146 | (1) |
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147 | (5) |
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5.3 From rituals of gratitude to rituals of faithfulness and beyond |
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152 | (3) |
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5.4 From rituals of faithfulness to rituals of authenticity and rituals of love |
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155 | (2) |
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5.5 Closing the circle: on myths, forms of the second order - and back to ritual |
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157 | (4) |
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5.6 Late modern myths of the forms of the second order: myths of love |
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161 | (4) |
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5.7 Rituals of match-making vs. rituals of love |
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165 | (3) |
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5.8 A Brief Review: A Fifth Balance |
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168 | (4) |
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6 Love: enchanting master emotion and durability-providing form |
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172 | (27) |
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6.1 Love, love rituals and its different phases |
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172 | (12) |
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6.2 We feel love, therefore we are committed |
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184 | (3) |
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6.3 Love rituals, love myths |
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187 | (6) |
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6.4 Towards a morality of love |
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193 | (4) |
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6.5 A Brief Review: A Sixth Balance |
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197 | (2) |
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199 | (6) |
Bibliography |
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205 | (8) |
Index |
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