About This Book |
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About the Author |
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Part One: Accepting Rules and Authority at School |
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1 | (174) |
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3 | (4) |
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Story: ``Mrs. Tryit's ideas'' |
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7 | (10) |
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Understanding the Teacher's Role |
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17 | (34) |
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18 | (2) |
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School Rules Are Different from Home Rules |
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20 | (2) |
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Different Ways of Learning |
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22 | (2) |
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Showing Respect for Your Teacher |
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24 | (2) |
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Doing What the Teacher Asks |
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26 | (2) |
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When the Teacher Leaves the Room |
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28 | (2) |
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Getting the Teacher's Attention |
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30 | (2) |
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32 | (2) |
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34 | (3) |
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Notes Have to Make It Home |
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37 | (2) |
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When the Teacher Is Talking... |
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39 | (2) |
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Teacher-Pleasing Behaviors |
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41 | (3) |
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When Your Teacher Has a Bad Day |
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44 | (3) |
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Having Fun, But Knowing When to Stop |
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47 | (4) |
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Classroom Tips for Understanding the Teacher's Role |
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50 | (1) |
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Classroom Rules and Responsibilities |
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51 | (64) |
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52 | (3) |
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55 | (2) |
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Paying Attention to the Task |
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57 | (3) |
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60 | (2) |
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62 | (3) |
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Complying with Instructions Right Away |
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65 | (2) |
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67 | (2) |
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Appropriate and Inappropriate Language |
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69 | (2) |
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What Do I Need for This Job? |
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71 | (2) |
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Good Choices for Free Time |
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73 | (2) |
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75 | (2) |
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77 | (2) |
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79 | (2) |
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Thinking About Consequences |
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81 | (2) |
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Doing It Right the First Time |
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83 | (2) |
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85 | (2) |
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87 | (3) |
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Bringing Homework to School |
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90 | (2) |
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92 | (3) |
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Independent versus Group Assignments |
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95 | (2) |
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Fire Drills and Other Interruptions |
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97 | (2) |
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Behaving at a Special Program |
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99 | (3) |
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102 | (2) |
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Sharing in Community Circle |
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104 | (4) |
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Using the Class Computers |
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108 | (2) |
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110 | (5) |
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Classroom Tips for Classroom Rules and Responsibilities |
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114 | (1) |
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Relating Appropriately to Other School People |
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115 | (32) |
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116 | (2) |
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The Classroom Assistant (Aide) |
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118 | (2) |
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120 | (2) |
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122 | (2) |
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You're Not My Classroom Teacher! |
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124 | (2) |
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126 | (2) |
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128 | (2) |
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130 | (2) |
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132 | (2) |
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134 | (2) |
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136 | (2) |
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138 | (2) |
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140 | (2) |
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142 | (5) |
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Classroom Tips for Relating Appropriately to Other School People |
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145 | (2) |
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147 | (28) |
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148 | (2) |
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150 | (2) |
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152 | (2) |
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154 | (2) |
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I Am Having a Really Bad Day |
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156 | (2) |
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I Don't Understand What to Do |
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158 | (3) |
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161 | (2) |
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163 | (2) |
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165 | (3) |
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168 | (2) |
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170 | (2) |
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Keeping Track of Assignments |
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172 | (3) |
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Classroom Tips for When You Have Problems |
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174 | (1) |
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Part Two: Relating to Peers |
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175 | (92) |
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176 | (3) |
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Story: ``Ralph and His Purple Face'' |
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179 | (4) |
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Learning and Working with Others |
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183 | (32) |
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184 | (3) |
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187 | (2) |
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Ignoring When You Have To |
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189 | (2) |
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191 | (3) |
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194 | (3) |
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197 | (2) |
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199 | (3) |
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202 | (2) |
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204 | (2) |
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Listening to Other People's Ideas |
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206 | (2) |
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208 | (2) |
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210 | (5) |
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Classroom Tips for Learning and Working with Others |
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212 | (3) |
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215 | (26) |
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Being Interested in Others |
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216 | (2) |
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218 | (2) |
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Joining Clubs and Activities |
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220 | (2) |
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Inviting Others into Your Group |
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222 | (2) |
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Breaking into a New Group |
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224 | (4) |
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228 | (2) |
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230 | (2) |
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232 | (2) |
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234 | (3) |
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Having Someone Visit Your House |
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237 | (4) |
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Classroom Tips for Making Friends |
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239 | (2) |
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241 | (26) |
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Learning from Your Friend |
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242 | (2) |
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244 | (2) |
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246 | (2) |
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248 | (2) |
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250 | (2) |
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Sometimes Friends Disagree |
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252 | (3) |
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Sticking Up for Your Friend |
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255 | (2) |
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Helping Someone with a Problem |
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257 | (3) |
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Telling Someone If a Friend Needs Help |
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260 | (2) |
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262 | (5) |
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Classroom Tips for Keeping Friends |
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265 | (2) |
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Part Three: Developing Positive Social Skills |
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267 | (176) |
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269 | (4) |
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273 | (8) |
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Understanding Social Situations |
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281 | (48) |
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Having Clear Expectations |
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282 | (2) |
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Saying ``No'' Without Sounding Rude |
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284 | (2) |
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Don't Say ``Yes'' If You Mean ``No'' |
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286 | (2) |
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Not Hurting the Feelings of Others |
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288 | (2) |
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290 | (3) |
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293 | (3) |
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296 | (2) |
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298 | (2) |
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300 | (3) |
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303 | (2) |
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Understanding the Teacher's Moods |
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305 | (2) |
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Understanding How Other People Feel |
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307 | (2) |
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309 | (2) |
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What Is the Right Thing to Do? |
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311 | (2) |
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313 | (2) |
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This Is a Molehill, Not a Mountain |
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315 | (2) |
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317 | (3) |
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320 | (3) |
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Appropriate Behavior for a Particular Place |
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323 | (2) |
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Hints That You Are Doing Okay |
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325 | (4) |
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Classroom Tips for Understanding Social Situations |
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327 | (2) |
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Positive Personality Attributes |
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329 | (34) |
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Developing Interests and Hobbies |
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330 | (2) |
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Being Patient with Others |
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332 | (2) |
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334 | (3) |
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337 | (3) |
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340 | (2) |
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342 | (2) |
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344 | (3) |
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Admiring and Complimenting Others |
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347 | (2) |
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Apologizing and Accepting the Blame |
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349 | (2) |
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351 | (3) |
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354 | (4) |
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358 | (5) |
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Classroom Tips for Positive Personality Attributes |
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361 | (2) |
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Getting Along with Others at Home |
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363 | (32) |
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364 | (2) |
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Consequences of Disobedience |
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366 | (2) |
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368 | (2) |
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370 | (2) |
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372 | (2) |
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374 | (3) |
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377 | (2) |
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379 | (2) |
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381 | (2) |
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383 | (2) |
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385 | (2) |
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387 | (3) |
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I Don't Need a Baby-sitter |
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390 | (2) |
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392 | (3) |
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Classroom Tips for Getting Along with Others at Home |
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394 | (1) |
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395 | (48) |
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396 | (2) |
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Being a Guest in Someone's Home |
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398 | (3) |
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401 | (2) |
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403 | (3) |
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406 | (2) |
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Mimicking or Imitating Others |
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408 | (2) |
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Behavior in Public Places |
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410 | (2) |
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412 | (2) |
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414 | (2) |
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416 | (2) |
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418 | (4) |
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422 | (3) |
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425 | (4) |
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Respecting Adults in the Community |
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429 | (2) |
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Answering Questions Appropriately |
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431 | (2) |
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433 | (2) |
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435 | (2) |
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437 | (2) |
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439 | (2) |
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441 | (2) |
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Classroom Tips for Everyday Etiquette |
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