The Success Paradox is the improbable story of a life and business transformed, told in a warmly authentic style that says: “I hit rock bottom, I surrendered, I began doing the opposite of what I’d been doing before, miracles happened, and here’s what you can learn from my journey.”
With riveting personal details that illuminate his discoveries, Gary details how he defied the odds – not just to survive but to thrive - by implementing a series of paradoxical strategies, fundamentally opposite to anything he’d ever done before. The result is an inspiring book about what happened to him and a blueprint for readers to experience how to surrender and win in business and life.
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
FOREWORD
INTRODUCTION
PART ONE
PARADOX # 1SURRENDER AND WIN
Chapter OneThree Principles
PARADOX # 2FATHER IS CHILD TO THE MAN
Chapter TwoBeing Authentic
PARADOX # 3WE ARE THE WORLD
Chapter ThreeDoing Good
PARADOX # 4PROFIT BEFORE PROFIT
Chapter FourDoing Well
PART TWO
PARADOX # 5YOU CANT GET HERE FROM THERE
Chapter FiveFinding Your Why
PARADOX # 6WHY IS THERE NEVER ENOUGH TIME TO DO THINGS RIGHT, BUT ALWAYS
ENOUGH TIME TO DO THEM OVER?
Chapter SixThe Success Paradox Lifestyle
PARADOX # 7GIVE TO RECEIVE, RECEIVE TO GIVE
Chapter SevenGiving Up
PARADOX # 8WE CAN GET WHAT WE NEED WHEN WE QUIT TRYING TO GET WHAT WE WANT
Chapter EightOpening to Big Change
PARADOX # 9HIGH IS LOW, LOW IS HIGH
Chapter NineAnswering a Cry for Help
PARADOX # 10WE CAN CHANGE OUR PAST FROM THE FUTURE
Chapter TenHealing Our Past
PART THREE
PARADOX # 11REALITY IS AN ACT OF CREATION ... YOURS
Chapter ElevenWhats Next for You?
PARADOX # 12BELIEVING IS SEEING
Chapter TwelveWhats Next for Your Organization?
PARADOX # 13THE MEANS DETERMINE THE END
Chapter ThirteenSurrender and Win
Glossary of Unique Terms
Gary Cooper was 28 when his father died suddenly, making him CEO of a South Carolina health care business with 500 employees, $25M in revenue, and ten partners much older than him. Two months after his fathers funeral the bank called all their loans, demanding $30M in 30 days. So began Garys roller coaster ride into workaholism, alcoholism, near bankruptcy, and family strife, culminating in a doctors grim diagnosis: You have less than a month to live.But Gary turned everything around. Today he is sober, healthy, happy, his family is reunited, and his company, Palmetto Infusion Inc., is valued at $400M. How he did it reveals three astounding secrets that turn best business practices upside down.