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Preface |
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1 Introduction: Expectation, the Placebo Effect, and Chatting |
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3 | (2) |
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1.3 Other and Related Expectational Phenomena |
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1.4 Comments on Disease/Cure and Illness/Heal |
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1.5 RB's Model of Therapy, the Therapeutic Alliance, and Chatting |
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8 | (8) |
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B The Therapeutic Alliance |
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11 | (2) |
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13 | (3) |
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1.6 Brief Introduction to Two Approaches |
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A The Miracle Question and the Miracle Method |
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B Ambiguous Function Assignments (AFA) |
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18 | (3) |
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2 The Charlie Brown Exceptional Patient and Caregiver Group of Yellow Springs |
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21 | (6) |
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2.2 Ira Byock's Statements and End-of-Life Issues |
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24 | (1) |
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2.3 Rabbi Hillel's Wisdom |
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25 | (2) |
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3 Preparation for Surgery: Two Approaches |
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3.1 Hypnosis and Preparation for Surgery |
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27 | (7) |
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B Five Parts to the Hypnotic Session |
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C Preparation for Surgery Script |
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D Letter to the Surgeon and Healing Statements |
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32 | (2) |
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3.2 Remen's Circle of Healing and Related Circles |
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A Remen's Circle of Healing for Preparation for Surgery |
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B Variants on Remen's Circle of Healing |
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35 | (2) |
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C Rituals, Ceremonies, and the Navajo Talking Circle |
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3.3 Some Concluding Comments |
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39 | (1) |
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4 Case Study 1: Mary and Anxiety and Insomnia and Shit and Einstein and |
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40 | (3) |
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5 Case Study 2: Bobbi and Her Needy Knees |
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6 Guided Imagery for Healing and Psychotherapy |
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46 | (11) |
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6.2 Different Forms of Imagery |
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6.3 Duration of Guided Imagery Sessions |
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48 | (1) |
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6.4 Information for a Guided Imagery Session |
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49 | (1) |
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6.5 Other Factors: Connections to Metaphor, Hypnosis, and Psychotherapy |
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50 | (1) |
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6.6 George's Guided Imagery CD for Cancer |
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51 | (2) |
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A George and Pyramid Mountain and Hashem |
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51 | (2) |
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6.7 Anne's Guided Imagery for Psychotherapy |
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A Anne and Anxiety and the Pine Forest and Jesus |
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56 | (1) |
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7 Case Study 3: Marvin, Weight Control, and the Mighty M & Ms |
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7.1 Marvin and the Mighty M & Ms |
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60 | (3) |
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8 Case Study 4: Carol and the Curious Cough |
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9 Rapport and the Therapeutic Alliance |
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70 | (7) |
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9.2 Pacing Body (Postural) Language |
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71 | (1) |
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9.4 Representational Systems and Eye Accessing Cues |
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9.5 Anchors and Anchoring |
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9.6 Anchoring and Remen's Healing Circle |
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74 | (2) |
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9.7 Some Closing Comments |
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76 | (1) |
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10 Case Studies 5 and 6: Sammy and Self-Regard and Normalizing Norman |
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77 | (7) |
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10.1 Introducing Sammy and Norman |
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10.2 Case Study 5: Sammy and Self-Regard (9/2018) |
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10.3 February Man Script for Sammy |
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A A Exorcism Part of Session |
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10.4 Script for Sammy's Oceanic Buddhist Experience |
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11 Case Study 6: Normalizing Norman |
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84 | (3) |
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87 | (21) |
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87 | (1) |
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12.2 Reprise on Useful Definitions |
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88 | (2) |
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90 | (2) |
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12.4 Transforming Negative Self-Talk |
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12.5 Andrea's Exercises and Change Processes |
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A Changing Location of the Voice (Book One) |
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B Adding Music or a Song (Book One) |
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C Talking Positively to Yourself (Book One) |
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D Transforming a Message (Book One) |
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E Joining with a Voice (Book Two) |
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98 | (1) |
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F Asking for the Positive Intent (Book Two) |
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99 | (1) |
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G Using the Voice of a Trusted Friend (Book Two) |
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H Comments on Andreas's "Transforming Negative Self-Talk" |
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100 | (1) |
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12.6 Healing Language Scenarios |
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12.7 Reframing and Healing Language |
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12.8 Two Concluding Sets of Healing Activities |
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106 | (2) |
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A Bernie Siegel's Questions for People with Life-Challenging Diseases |
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B Bernie Siegel's Four Drawings |
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106 | (2) |
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13 Case Study 7: Jennifer, Anxiety, Manzanita Beach, and Jesus |
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108 | (9) |
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14 Case Study 8: Barbara and Stress and Hearing and a Husband |
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117 | (2) |
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119 | (17) |
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119 | (1) |
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A Financial and Legal Matters |
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120 | (1) |
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121 | (1) |
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5.3 Physical Health Related Coping Skills |
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122 | (14) |
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A How to Survive in a Hospital |
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B Milstein's Comments and Coping Suggestions |
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C Communicating with Medical Personnel |
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125 | (3) |
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D Helplessness, Hopelessness, and Control |
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128 | (1) |
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E Hammerschlag's Recommendations and Laughter |
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129 | (1) |
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F Maintaining Mental and Physical Health |
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130 | (1) |
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G Work Books and Distance Writing |
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131 | (2) |
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133 | (1) |
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I Recordings and Autobiographies |
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134 | (1) |
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135 | (1) |
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16 Case Study 9: Laura and Breaking Away |
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136 | (3) |
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17 Case Study 10: George and Smoking |
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139 | (3) |
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18 Case Study 11: Peter and His PA |
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142 | (5) |
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19 Case Study 12: Gloria and the Oboe and Being Adequate |
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147 | (2) |
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20 Case Study 13: Nonagenarian Charlie with Anxiety about Eye Problem |
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149 | (2) |
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151 | (6) |
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22 Case Study 14: Joe and the NLP Fast Allergy Cure |
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22.1 NLP Fast Allergy Cure with Joe |
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157 | (4) |
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23 Case Study 15: Joan and the NLP VK Dissociation Fast Phobia Cure |
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161 | (4) |
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23.1 Joan and Fear of Flying |
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162 | (3) |
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165 | (5) |
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165 | (2) |
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B Fundamental Three Rules for Doing Therapy |
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166 | (1) |
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24.2 Acting As-If as a Healing Factor |
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167 | (3) |
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25 Guided Imagery, Hypnosis, and Other Approaches for Palliative Care |
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170 | (10) |
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25.1 Palliative Care, Comfort Care, and Hospice Care |
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170 | (1) |
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25.2 Guided Imagery and Palliative Care |
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A Script for Guided Imagery for Palliative Care |
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B Guided Imagery Script for Healing |
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25.3 Psychotherapy for Palliative Care |
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174 | (1) |
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25.4 Variations of the Remen Healing Circle for Palliative Care Patients and Related Groups |
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175 | (1) |
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B Focused on the Entire Group |
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176 | (1) |
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25.5 Other Activities for Palliative Care Patients |
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176 | (2) |
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177 | (1) |
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C Pets, Stuffed Animals, and Special Belongings |
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177 | (1) |
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25.6 Hypnosis for Palliative Care and Pain Control |
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178 | (1) |
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179 | (1) |
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26 Extraordinary Sessions |
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180 | (5) |
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27 Some Ending Thoughts and Comments |
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Appendix A Ruminations on Turning 88 |
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187 | (6) |
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192 | (1) |
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Appendix B End-of-Life Issues |
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193 | (25) |
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193 | (2) |
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195 | (3) |
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B Health Care Power of Attorney |
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196 | (1) |
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C Do Not Resuscitate (DNR) |
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196 | (1) |
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B.3 Dying With Dignity Organizations and Information |
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198 | (7) |
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B Final Exit Network (FEN) |
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C World Federation of Right to Die Societies (WFRtDS) |
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E Catholic Health Facilities |
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200 | (1) |
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G Questions to Ask Before Tests and Procedures |
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202 | (1) |
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I Death With Dignity Acts: Legal Programs in the United States |
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J Death With Dignity Acts: Legal Programs in Other Countries |
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205 | (1) |
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A Suicide Data for the United States |
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206 | (1) |
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B Inert Gases: Helium and Nitrogen |
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207 | (1) |
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D Voluntary Stopping Eating and Drinking (VSED) |
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208 | (1) |
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208 | (1) |
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B.5 Pain Control and Ideomotor Signaling |
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208 | (1) |
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B.6 Dying and Living Well |
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209 | (1) |
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B.7 Some Closing Comments and References |
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210 | (8) |
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210 | (4) |
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Addendum 2 Henning Mankell's Wisdom |
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214 | (2) |
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Addendum 3 Books that Have Influenced My Volunteer Work |
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216 | (2) |
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Appendix C Questions for People in Their Dying Time |
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218 | (3) |
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Appendix D Patient's Bill of Rights |
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221 | (2) |
References |
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Index |
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