What do pop songs have to say about love? Surprisingly, this book shows that most popular love songs express much more about alienation, infatuation, estrangement, jealousy, and heartbreak than about love. Scheff takes the reader on a tour of popular lyrics from 80 years of American song to reveal the emotional and relational meaning of lyrics. He shows that popular love songs typically steer listeners away from a healthy connection to the emotions surrounding love. Readers will gain a deeper understanding of love songs while appreciating the author's suggestions for how listeners and artists could enrich the art of the love song.
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The great strength of the book lies in the simple idea that popular media provide the psychological pulse of a culture in a way that has the potential to reflect enduring truths about human nature. Such media content in analysis is rare in psychology (cf. DeWall et al., 2011) but has great potentialWe thank Scheff for reminding us that love is all around us love is in the airwaves. Contemporary Psychology Vol. 57, Release 20
| Preface: A Note to the Reader |
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| Acknowledgments |
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1 Introduction: What's in a Love Song? |
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2 Conceptions of Love: The Eternal Debate |
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3 Emotion Languages: Love, Pride, Anger, Grief, Fear, and Other Emotions |
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4 Alienation in Top 40 Songs 1930-2000 |
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5 Nobody Knows but Me: Curtailment of Feeling |
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6 Genuine Love and Connectedness |
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7 What Emotion Is the Shadow of Love? |
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8 The Beat Goes On: Alienation and Curtailment of Emotions |
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| Afterword: Two Projects for Better Lyrics |
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| References |
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| Index |
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| About the Author |
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Thomas J. Scheff is Professor Emeritus, University of California, Santa Barbara. He is the author of Being Mentally Ill (Aldine, 1999), Microsociology (University of Chicago Press, 1994), Bloody Revenge (Backinprint.com, 2000), Emotions and the Social Bond (Cambridge University Press, 1997), other books, articles, and chapters on social psychology, bonds, emotions, and large scale conflict. His current projects include books on human bonds and on interpersonal communication. He is trying to become a generalist, but it is difficult to overcome bad habits. Still more he would like to be funny, but that seems out of reach.